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# It is not possible to have a harmonious family without the trust of partners to each other.
# How to behave when married erotic manifestations have undergone destructive changes?

# Be very careful, considerate, gentle with his partner

Carelessly thrown word, a look, etc. can lead to the formation of inferiority complex at Your half (especially in men), secure it (him) to the neurotic reactions that deepen sexual inadequacy. Your indiscretion may create distrust towards You by a partner, which will lead to tension in the family. Distrust becomes the cause of jealousy. Constant suspicion of treason and is able to cool Your senses.

If You see that Your partner is having problems in which he is afraid to admit, take "the cross itself"
Tell him that You have problems, and what is it You need his support and help. Thus the question will not cause Your satellite to stimulation of protective reactions, and it is much faster to agree to visit a specialist together with You.

# If partner, realizing his problem, he turned to You for help, don't push him away, have more patience and understanding

Remember, man is very hard to admit to someone his faults, especially in the intimate sphere. Therefore, the push partner (or prigotovitsya to it themselves). Let him feel the protection, love, tenderness. Let him see and hear that You are ready to overcome any difficulties.

# If You see the source of problems in yourself, trust Your partner

Only together You are able to restore Your sensuality and overcome the disorder.

# Don't be afraid to discuss with a partner the most pleasant erotic experiences

Allow your loved one to know the sources of Your sexual pleasure. Try to find out the preferences of Your partner.
The more open partners, the more they understand the strong and weak properties of each other, on the characteristics of the desires, preferences and habits in the sexual sphere, and the faster they are able to respond to these features.

# Be careful when choosing a specialist

If you are bugged disorder of the marital life, and You decided to consult a specialist first find out about the marital status of the psychologist or the sexologist, to which You are planning to get an appointment. Divorced people cannot provide You with a qualified assistance in overcoming family problems, because her methods were not valid in his own family.
In addition, look at the specialist as the person who in addition to knowledge is the carrier of specific values. And if, in Your opinion, spiritual and value base of this expert are not highly, do not try to implement all of his recommendations to his pathology eventually becomes Your problem.
In the literature sexological orientation (brochures, tips for newlyweds, Newspapers, magazines, etc.) is quite common following recommendation: "If You and your partner had a fight, under no circumstances do not stop your love life. Your resentment and misunderstandings should not be a reason for avoiding sexual contact."
Thus the question indicates a low level of professional qualifications of the authors of such allegations.
Your sex life is the sex life of man and, unlike the animal, it is although an important part of human existence, however, is not his prerogative. Intimate conjugal unity is the continuation of love between You and Your half, Your continued understanding, Your dedication, beauty and talent. Otherwise, an erotic initiation is replaced by mutual Masturbation.
If You quarrel with your beloved (or the beloved), in the first place, make peace, forgive each other wrongs, feel the power of his love and love his partner and only then implement exciting in an erotic togetherness.
Your reconciliation can end the erotic experiences, but must not start him, because, even in normal sexual realization You will not get the pleasure, the sweetness You deserve and which deserves Your partner.