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Hi guys, hope we are all doing well. I pray for God's blessings over everything we do in Jesus name. You know, I have been thinking all day and have got some questions I can't find answer to. It's been bothering my mind, not just today and I hope we can reason together.

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Sometimes, I considered  'help' as a vague thing. You know, something that does not exist. Even though, I know I was wrong, that help exists, that was just how it appeared to me. Truly, I cannot deny that some people enjoy help. I mean full help from their fellow and I really do admire them. At times I wonder if there were certain things such people do that made them receive numerous help from people, whereas, there are people that don't enjoy that, even when they are not bad people. In fact, it seems not all helpers receive help at times. 

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I have a friend that has enjoyed so much help from people. He was always getting something from people throughout his university days. He once got a laptop from someone. At a time phone, another time, money. After his graduation, the trend continues, even now that he's married. He testifies to the goodness of God and how much help of man he gets everyday without doing to much. However, things were the other way for his brother, I mean his biological brother. This brother could not boast of receiving any help from man. He had to struggle and worked out all he ever had. He helped lot but rarely get help himself. 

Then, I wonder what life is all about. Does it mean life is fair to some and bad to others. Whenever my friend's brother comes to me and lament on how hard he is trying. I do become teary. Life is indeed easier when we have people around us. Life is sweeter when people see our sweat and offer to help. Helplessness causes loneliness and that feeling of loneliness can kill. We feel nobody sees us. We feel nobody cares for us. At times, we feel like giving up. But the truth is God cares, and if it's not by the help of God, we wouldn't be here today. God helps everybody, it's only if we do not see it. And those help that appeared so tiny are always more than the ones we envisage. Being able to sleep and wake is a help from God. Having capacity to achieve some things without external assistance is also another form of help that we can't deny. These are what I console myself and every other person in my shoes with.

I just wish the helped , that is, hose that have received help also  stretch arms of help to others. By that, help will circulate. We don't expect the same set of people that help us to be the ones to help others. We are sometimes helped to help others. Not every person receives such grace. We can be the help of the Helpless. And if you are out there, thinking that help is not forthcoming, know that you are not alone. Help we find you someday.

Thanks for reading.
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