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<center> Once again, yesterday, we saw the worst side of Wenger. Something we have seen throughout many years. Something we almost have gotten used to. If you watched both Arsenal matches this week, you could have seen it twice in a week! He is acting as he is the victim of some mega troll. Yes, the penalty was a 50/50, and by many referees, it wouldn't have been a penalty in 9/10 situations, but it was yesterday. If it was or not was is just not the most important part. It's Wengers reaction to it. During the match, as well as post-match. For those who didn't watch the match, Wenger complaint about the penalty Chelsea was given for many minutes, and post-match he continued his rant at the referees that started 20 years ago. The main issue in this consistent drama is the effect it has on the players. In this role of self-pity Wenger likes to be in, he affects the players in a very negative way. Having a manager constantly blaming someone else for his own flaws is destroying, not only himself but his team as well. As a manager, leader, chef, etc, you are hired to take control of the situation, because they thought you were the best of many candidates to do so. Of course, in the recent years, we have all come to witness, that he and the club have failed to do so. Blaming someone else, in this case, the referees, for your own mistakes, is a sign of weakness and a sign that you have given up. That you simply don't know what to do anymore. You have lost your creativity, your ability to lead, and your sense of when and who to blame. If you are lost, I can inform you that nothing good comes out of being/acting as the victim. When acting as the victim you're indirectly saying that you can't do a damn thing, and nothing is in your control. This, of course, has an effect on the team. Like a little kid when he observes his dad, he starts to act like him. Instead of constantly blaming the ref, why not take control, or at least admit that you have no control of the situation, deal with it, and move on. Admitting that you have no control, and then motivating the players instead of blaming the referees should be the way to lead, but still, he does the opposite. 

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<center> **What do you think of Wenger**? </center> 

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