I was playing table tennis yesterday and I discovered that my opponent was always moving to one side of the board. So I was always using his weak spot to beat him. 
It is a normal thing for everyone to have weakness but when the weakness gets to have dominance over you, that's where the problem lies. ![images (1).jpeg](https://gateway.ipfs.io/ipfs/QmPPWkpcFLFJj6UEJo97C6M2JinkbCnfhaVEzUsPhtdYaz)

The problem with weakness is that there is a tendency for everyone to see it taking over you when you are not working on it. Most times when people know you have a weak point it is just human for them to make every use of it. I remember having a friend whose weakness wassail having sex. Anytime he met his ex-girlfriend he couldn't help but to get involved in the act. So most times his ex girlfriend would come because she knew he couldn't resist. The rest is history. 

The aim of this post is to say that it's not easy to work on your weakness but start somewhere and you will get to see yourself improving everyday.  Sometimes    you might fall and other times you will feel used but keep on trying. Rome was not built in a day. Also no good thing comes easy. 

Adding value to yourself is one of the greatest thing one can do for himself. Remember the best investment is the investment that is done on yourself. 
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@wafrica
@gbenga( you have been helping Nigerian youths on steemit of which I am  a beneficiary 
@stach for their constant promotion if steemit in Nigeria.

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