How to Deal with Betrayal and the Feeling of Being Cheated? Part #1
mindset·@chbartist·
0.000 HBDHow to Deal with Betrayal and the Feeling of Being Cheated? Part #1
<div class="text-justify"> Hi, Steemians! In the first part of Divine Comedy, Dante states that betrayal is the greatest wrongdoing that any man can commit in their lifetime. Inferno, as it were, is described with a certain hierarchical system in which every sin and reprehensible action or behavior is categorized. In the abysmal end of that inferno is betrayal, and the most horrid folly ever conceived by mankind. Often times in life, we may feel betrayed or cheated. Sometimes, betrayal lunges at you with a ferocious strike, leaving you defenseless and hurt. How can we deal with betrayal? <center> </center> <a href="https://unsplash.com/photos/BVdj3TuK-L4">img src</a> <div class="text-justify"> There are many things that can destroy a man’s spirit in this life. Some of you may wonder how this is related to our usual motivational content. Well, to answer that question, you need to understand that a person cannot be productive or visionary if they are psychologically hurt. In the world of business or even personal relationships, betrayal is a common mischief. People tend to think that they can get hold of something better, and in the process of getting that better thing, they trample on the right of others. Many of us may be unprepared for such behavior. You should never bring a knife to a gunfight, but if you do, how should you deal with the aftermath? <center> </center> <a href="https://unsplash.com/photos/A8ZpqMt06xs">img src</a> <div class="text-justify"> This aftermath has many faces. A lot of people fall into the grips of depression and lose touch of who they are as a person. A lot of people tend to overthink their whole relation with the person who has betrayed them. Where did it go wrong? Was it my fault? How could I have prevented this? It may be difficult to be able to trust other people when you feel betrayed. But here is a truth: You should not let the wrongdoing of other people determine who you are as a person. <center> </center> <a href="https://unsplash.com/photos/tm0OnT5ZOU4">img src</a> <div class="text-justify"> Meaning, when someone does something bad to you and does it behind your back, you should not pressure yourself into changing your personality to better suit the current landscape of society. A lot of people taste the bitterness of betrayal and change as a person, becoming cruel themselves and inflicting cruelty unto other people because they have been wronged. But if you feed this cycle of greed and viciousness, you will do nothing but help the ethical system take a wrong step at every turn, ultimately dooming a society to live the rest of its day in madness and chaos. <center> </center> <a href="https://unsplash.com/photos/8nXDQ2UQPjs">img src</a> <div class="text-justify"> It is okay to feel bad or broken after you have been betrayed. There are few feelings as terrible as feeling like someone has taken advantage of your kindness and honesty. But do not fall into despair. Not everyone you meet in life is going to be as vicious. So, have hope for a brighter future in which trust can be the cornerstone of your relationships. For now, remember this: Whatever that doesn’t kill you makes you stronger! A BIG HUG! @chbartist Don't forget! Vote for @chbartist for Witness and Together We Can Help More People! - Click on the link below and confirm your vote. <center> </center> <a href="https://www.voteclimatepac.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/vote-image-copy.jpg">img src</a> <div class="text-justify"> For you to vote, simply click on the link below and log in to steemconnect and give your vote! # [Vote for chbartist here:](https://v2.steemconnect.com/sign/account-witness-vote?witness=chbartist&approve=1) ======================================= IMPORTANT! 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I have a very busy life but I am giving my best and believe me I have shared experiences that I have been coaching thousands of people and I know that the change of the Mindset should be daily. I am already grateful to see you giving upvotes to each other and you can see this with the fact that many already have 8, 9, 10 upvotes. But I'm sure that with the effort of all of us we will see a community with, more and more upvotes each others and for that everyone should get engaged so we can make it come true. I believe and we can! Resteem... ***Remember Community: Please, if you commented and upvote on a new post I did, please always go back to the previous one because if someone in the community commented lastly because of time zone differences it will be without your upvote and that would not be fair. You all know the goal! We can reach: More and More Upvotes each others! Attention!!! I'm reading all the meaningful comments from the posts. I am here making a list of all of you who have helped build this community by voting for each other who write meaningful comments and soon I will respond to everyone with comment and thank you all because I can already see this spirit being built in this Positive Mindset community and help between all of you. You will receive my upvote in all material and brief comments I will do this in all the posts I am following very closely and I can see what the people who are generous and contribute to this legacy that I am trying to build with all of you can become reality in a short time. AND First of all, I would like to thank all of you, who are the most active and proactive in this community, showing your generosity and always with meaningful comments. From now on I will always make a list of these incredible people who have helped to expand our goal of growing ever more. But I ask that if you are new around here you read many of the previous posts because they make it clear that we are building a community with respect among all, generosity and this blog is for those who really want to start moving their Mindset to positive and moreover be part of the growth of all of us who contribute to this blog. Thanks All of You!!!! </div>
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