Hey my fellow Jestastised

I'm glad I managed to get a hold of you, I know how busy your schedules are so I appreciate you taking the time out of your day to read my latest rant.  I don't know about ya'll but try to avoid drama like the plague. I value my solitude so if you're going to start up with me it's pretty much an easy choice on what I'm going to do.

![tenor (1).gif](https://ipfs.busy.org/ipfs/QmWTN1zhNua7Uggj2eZViG3tLjPJhRs69ioeeVboSPaPTt)

## My safe space

I really am trying to rid my life negativity and toxic people which of course isn't always the case. Even Superman had a fortress of solitude, even Batman has the Batcave. Why do you think that is? Because they need to get away from the BS!

From my personal experience its always been wasted energy to try and reason with people. Once they've been contaminated with drama, you might as well call it quits, they're dead to you now. Say a pray for them and move on. 

![tenor.gif](https://ipfs.busy.org/ipfs/QmbUD9JgWyCNYWeGpS3ZYeFyh42omxjykfHquWrfwo3bs4)

## You're not special

I know your mom and dad told you, you're so damn special and you can do anything you set your mind to...as long as its being a lawyer, accountant, doctor or some bullshit job that's perceived as stable. Well you're not, we're all expendable and most people really only keep you around for the benefits, they will extract until they cannot anymore and move on.

If you want to play host to a leech, by all means, enjoy the codependency that's your choice. But if you walk away you will soon realise you'll be replaced without much thought, so don't get too caught up in it really.

I get very few texts these days but when I do it's either to ask for a favour, money, advice, information or some sort of ass wiping request. Can no one wipe their own ass these days? Seriously?

## Don't look back, better yet forget how to look back!

I know people shouldn't be beyond redemption but if they really valued you and wanted to keep you in their lives, if you were really that important they would put the time and effort in. I mean they took the time to push you away.

I also realise that it may come with regret or you may feel unfulfilled trust me you're getting off lightly. If they owed you something, still had something of yours, let it go. You just won freedom from drama and that is worth any cost in my opinion.  

![Instagram-I-am-legally-blind-lmao-be9572.png](https://ipfs.busy.org/ipfs/QmWk66qo7X6FsmQAe5mww99h4Rc2U47yXBgc9EcZedkT6X)

## Have your say

How do you deal with drama? 

Holla at me in the comments! All my commenters I will now refer to as Jessie. Jessie is a good friend of mine, but Jessies got a girl, and I want to make her mine. 

So have at it my Jessies! If you don't have something to comment, simply comment "I am a Jessie."

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