How you can build a forged relationship (part2)
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0.000 HBDHow you can build a forged relationship (part2)
Hallo steemians
Welcome to my blog
SO yesterday I wrote why is a necessity to be in a relationship,have u read the content, if U've not just one click away [click here](P5KNQzFRvtYRosvjQmbsTD1dCwLEi7ogDHwqL4uDTkEF9FyAhFyW)
We must cautiously and deliberately train ourselves to become the person we want to attract, would love to have around themselves, just as your are talking out time to fashion out the qualities of the people you want to attract into your life ,those set of people are cautiously defining the qualities they want in people as well, so as u step into the market to shop for profitable relationship understand that you are not the only one with a list
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Before you board a cab to profitable relationship Avenue here are few things I want you to do first
***UNDERSTAND YOUR PERSON ***
understanding the person you are is one of the most important thing, no one knows your better than yourself(not even your pastor) people will try to give you an an identy if you fail to present your identity,thats why you should not get bothed when people calls you what you are not,identy crisis is not born out of low self esteem,is an off spring of laziness to understand one's self, when you don't know who you are.
The people who you will meet in profitable relationship Avenue would give your identity and because they they did not create you,they will never give you a correct identity,the best they can do is good guess and a good guess is still a guess,u must understand your person,understanding your person helps you to shop better.
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***WORK INTO YOUR FUTURE***
Talk a walk into your future,in your future what kind of life so you have? What kind of car do you drive?what kind of colleague do you have ? What kind of business do you have? The people in that your future what did they expect from you?
Now work back into your today and begin to live that out, beginning to work towards becoming the person that has those people has in their life from today.that expectation they have of you begin to meet them now, you will end up attracting those people in your future even before you get there.
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*** CREATE ON IDEAL MENTAL NEIGHBORSHOOD***
I recently read one of Robin Sharm's classic book. It was my first encounter with mental neighborhoo.Think of the great people in life that you admire both dead and alive from Charles Darklin to Obama, Mark Zuckerberg, no limit, think of them.spirtual father like Kenneth Hagin,Archbishop Benson Idahesa and the rest,now imagine that they are your close door neighbours.what will be your attitude be like? How will you treat them? Would not offer ,to pick them up on your drive to work? Would you not offer them help without asking?
That is exactly how you should be living in your present neighborhood,treat people as who they are and they remaine like that, treat them as who they can be and you empower then to be better,the little seeds of kindness,goodness and awesomeness you sow today would never go unrewarded
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***LEARN TO ENJOY YOUR COMPANY ***
The last time you had a needy person around you, how did it feel? When that busy body will not let you chew gum in peace, how did you feel?that is exactly how you come out to people, when you have not learnt to enjoy your own company,if the time you have fun is when you are disturbing other peoples time,something is wrong with your company .
It is only a matter of time before people begin to stay away from you,if everytime you spend alone is boring, you will end up placing too much expectation on your time with other people and when you much expectation are placed,disappointment is invited.
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***STAY ON THE PATH OF PRAGRESS ***
let what you need from your profitable relationship be of help to upscale,not sense to start and live by, Relationship prosper when the parties involved are on the move, the successful people you want to attract are busy doing something,get busy yourself ,it is best when you meet yourself trip,then that kind of thing.
I know you get the point
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