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So I felt that lady doesn’t have a problem of attracting the wrong guys, I only felt she is giving herself away too cheaply as well as she is just coming in contact with guys that doesn’t really care about her. She has the right to have high expectations, but I think she is substituting her wealth for the presence of these leeches.

The truth is she knows this from the onset. She has seen the traces but for the desperate need for attention, she ignores and try to look for logic to back what she already knows is wrong. Often times, we know something is wrong, but for the desire not to lose that thing, we try to look for the slightest of reason to feel good about ourselves or to at least have an excuse, even when our head is screaming caution.

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Barely one week into the relationship with one of the numerous leeches she called a boyfriend, the guy asked for a loan from her. As much as you need that as a guy, I think that is totally a wrong move to any lady. Not like you have known her for that long and you have not even had any impact in her life yet, except for sex and you dare ask her for a loan? The lady also sensed it, but for the fear of being alone, she couldn’t resist, so what did she do? She didn’t give the guy the full amount of the loan. She gave half. 

As a smart guy that he is, after a sex romp with her few days after, he asked for another loan, exactly the same amount he asked that time that was halved. The guy knew she would half it again, so he asked and she gave half the money to the guy again; when he hasn’t even paid the last one he borrowed. Do you need any super powers to tell you he is exploiting you, young lady? He got the full money he asked for in two installments. What a smart guy, right? What a shame!

There are some things we need to run away from without any remorse and it is dependent on how we see ourselves.

**…to be continued…**

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Thank you for your time.

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*Still me*,

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