EN-PT transparent relationship does not generate distrust
hive-167922·@crazyphantombr·
3.740 HBDEN-PT transparent relationship does not generate distrust
https://img.leopedia.io/DQmYsC6A3uktCqnZaH9SkZV8oP5cmQr3QL8Kwoc1WF2V6vx/a652ec13-303f-460a-9499-9bfe3c09194a.png *A transparent relationship does not generate distrust. Image generated with the help of ChatGPT* --- g #hive-reachout #love <div align="justify"> <div class="text-justify"> I am once again present in the *HiveReachout* community, my best greetings to all friends! When I arrived on HIVE, in its social network form through Ecency, I was very shocked by what I discovered. I never imagined that total and unrestricted transparency could exist in the corrupt and individualistic world we live in. But it does, and in a short time, I ended up falling in love with this way of interacting with users (friends). Here, nothing can be hidden. We know everything others have done—if they posted a text, made a comment, or liked a post. The most impressive part is being able to see the wallet movements of other people. As strange as it may seem, after the initial surprise, today I don’t find it uncomfortable at all, and sometimes I find myself checking the wallets of members of the Brazilian HIVE-BR community, where I occasionally do curation, to notice their progress and the strengthening of the community. Maximum transparency, with no shame. #### But would this be possible in personal relationships? I can’t say that I believe relationships can be built based on total transparency. I see many couples arguing due to distrust: one wants to know the content of the conversations their partner has on instant messaging apps. What’s the need for that knowledge? Just curiosity? But I notice that the refusal to grant access to those conversations becomes a reason for *unfounded* distrust. I say unfounded because there is no actual basis for such suspicion, except for the fact that one refuses to allow their partner full access to their conversations. I suppose there can be intimate conversations: those topics you’d only discuss with your best friend. Gossip that can’t be revealed. Opinions that should remain within a small group. Professional topics must be protected by confidentiality in favor of the company, so let’s assume these conversations are purely personal. My partner and I have access to each other’s phones. I notice that having access actually reduces the desire to *use* that access. In other words, I rarely handle her phone. And I don’t even remember the last time she checked mine—it’s either been a long time or I didn’t notice. That is to say: perhaps granting access actually discouraged any potential jealousy or distrust. ### But what about bank accounts? Well, I know many couples who deposit their income into a shared account. We don’t do that, and we like it that way. Apparently, we have different interests when it comes to certain purchases that, in a shared scenario, might cause discussions. So we keep common expenses well distributed, and the rest of our income is used for individual purposes. I usually save a bit for emergencies, my partner doesn’t. That would be a problem if we shared our financial life. </div> </div> --- https://i.imgur.com/4UpXHUR.gif [](https://discord.gg/NgfkeVJT5w) [](https://peakd.com/@hive-br/posts) [](https://cryptocompany.ceo/hsbi.php) --- https://img.leopedia.io/DQmYsC6A3uktCqnZaH9SkZV8oP5cmQr3QL8Kwoc1WF2V6vx/a652ec13-303f-460a-9499-9bfe3c09194a.png *Uma relação transparente não gera desconfianças. Imagem gerada com auxílio do ChatGPT* <div align="justify"> <div class="text-justify"> Estou presente mais uma vez na comunidade *HiveReachout*, minhas melhores saudações a todos os amigos! Quando cheguei na HIVE, em sua forma de rede social através do ecency, fiquei muito chocado com o que fui descobrindo. Eu jamais imaginei que a transparência total e irrestrita existiria no mundo corrupto e individualista que vivemos. Mas existe, e em pouco tempo eu acabei me apaixonando por esta forma de se relacionar com os usuários (amigos). Aqui nada pode ser escondido. Sabemos tudo que o outro fez, se ele postou um texto, fez um comentário, curtiu uma postagem. O mais impressionante é saber das movimentações da carteira das outras pessoas. Por incrível que pareça, e depois do estranhamento inicial, hoje não acho nenhum incômodo e algumas vezes me vejo olhando as carteiras dos membros da comunidade brasileira HIVE-BR onde eventualmente faço curadoria, para perceber as evoluções o fortalecimento da comunidade. Transparência ao máximo, sem nenhum pudor. #### Mas nos relacionamentos pessoais isso seria possível? Não posso dizer que acredito que relacionamentos possam ser construídos com base na transparência total. Eu vejo muitos casais brigando por desconfiança: um quer saber o teor das conversas que o outro mantém em seu aplicativo de mensagens instantâneas. Qual a necessidade desse conhecimento? Apenas curiosidade? Mas vejo que a negativa em ceder o acesso às conversas torna-se um motivo de *desconfiança* infundada. Eu digo que é infundada porque não existe qualquer fundamento para essa desconfiança, a exceção do próprio fato de negar o acesso do seu parceiro ao inteiro teor das suas conversas. Eu suponho que possam existir conversas de nível íntimo: aquele assunto que você só abordaria com seu melhor amigo. Aquela fofoca que não pode ser revelada. Opiniões que devem se restringir a um pequeno grupo. Assuntos profissionais devem ser protegidos pelo sigilo em favor da empresa, então não vamos pensar que existem conversas profissionais, apenas pessoais. Eu e minha parceira temos acesso ao celular um do outro. Vejo que o fato de ter o acesso acaba por reduzir o interesse em *usufruir* do acesso. Ou seja, raramente eu manipulo o celular dela. E eu nem sei quando foi a última vez que ela manipulou o meu, não devo ter visto, ou faz muito tempo. Ou seja: talvez o fato de conceder acesso acabou por inibir um eventual ciúme ou desconfiança. ### Mas e as contas bancárias? Bom, conheço muitos casais que despejam os valores recebidos em uma conta compartilhada. Não fazemos isso, e gostamos que esteja assim. Aparentemente temos interesses distintos em realizar algumas aquisições que, num cenário compartilhado, talvez fosse motivo de discussão. Assim mantemos os pagamentos das coisas comuns bem distribuído e o restante dos ganhos são usados para fins individuais. Eu costumo guardar um pouco para emergências, minha parceira não. Isso seria um problema se tivéssemos compartilhado nossa vida financeira. </div> </div> --- https://i.imgur.com/4UpXHUR.gif [](https://discord.gg/NgfkeVJT5w) [](https://peakd.com/@hive-br/posts) [](https://cryptocompany.ceo/hsbi.php) Posted Using [INLEO](https://inleo.io/@crazyphantombr/hive-reachout-primeiro-post-75q)
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