Parents put a lot of effort into putting their child as much as possible into useful skills. They are guided by their own ideas about a successful person. **But are your ideas right? Is it enough for success in life to know perfectly English, the computer and have a tennis racket?**
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 >I think the most important skills for a child include very different skills such as:


## Discipline and self-control.
These skills are taught at a very young age. At the age of 3 years, a child should brush their teeth, wash and brush their hair, fold their clothes gently and so on, without reminders, in the morning and before going to bed.
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From the first days, teach your child certain rules, then remind him to do it himself. Even if your child has fallen asleep, without saving toys and brushing his teeth, wake him up. 2-3 "awakenings" and the child will no longer forget the rule.

In order for a young child to be interested in performing these actions, buy a new brush that is different from the one you currently have.

 It is important to make sure the child does everything without reminders.

## The ability to overcome difficulties, perseverance.
Let the child make mistakes, because without this he will not be able to learn how to overcome difficulties.
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Excellent help to the formation of the nature of sport. Overcoming difficulties and hard workouts, children achieve success. It is this ability that will help in adulthood not to succumb to difficulties and not surrender to the first failure.

## Sympathy and compassion
So that a child does not grow up as an indifferent egoist, he must teach him to understand the feelings of the people around him. This will help you not only to become a good person, but also to better understand people.
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Offer your child as a game to present yourself as a different person, for example, a fairytale hero. Frequently, involve him in domestic tasks. Explain why you need to help the elderly neighbor to carry a bag or make way for transportation. Your personal example will help you.

Do not just force or forbid your child to do something, but explain why this is bad or good.

## Analytical thinking

You can better understand the purpose or properties of objects for a child by touching and checking their qualities. It is not necessary to present the child with all the knowledge "on a silver platter". 
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In order for the baby to develop an analytical thought, one must encourage their curiosity, give clues, ask important questions and not offer prepared answers.

***Do not scold the child, if he tears the paper or analyzes the machine, this is his process of thinking and analyzing the environment. It is better to create conditions in the house for this activity.***

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