For me, one of the most interesting things about the whole Human Experience is the myriad different ways this single species we are functions in our environment.

We each seem to have skill sets that — if allowed to be practiced and developed appropriately — allow us to make really valuable contributions to the world... *in our own ways.*

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I was reading an article about education this morning, and it set me drifting sideways into memories of back when I was in school.

About age 14 or so was *really* when I started to grasp that I was a very *slow learner* with the capacity of gaining *much above average proficiency* in most things I undertook. 

In a world that tends to place a very high value on *"quickness,"* it was not really a combination that was much appreciated... to the point where I even spent some time talking to the school psychologist, trying to determine whether I was *"a bit slow in the head."*

This was the 1970's, folks! Todays *"political correctness"* hadn't really been invented, yet!

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## *A Good Fourth Impression!*

What was *actually* the situation was that I had a natural *"learning style"* that was deliberate and *very thorough.* Naturally, it meant that I spent a lot *longer* grasping how something *fully* functioned... but once I *did,* my proficiency level tended to keep growing and growing beyond where many quicker learners had already plateaued. 

In many ways, I believe my learning style contributed substantially to my journey into self-employment, which allowed me to become *expert* at things that interested me — or that I had a talent for — *at my own pace.*

Whenever I went into *"conventional"* work situations, it was almost inevitable that part of the job description would include the phrase *"ideally should be a quick learner."* It is a phrase that has always scared the snot out of me!

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As for the *"good fourth impression"* line, it was a way I used to joke about myself... people would talk about the importance of making a good *first impression* and I'd admit that I always made a great *fourth* impression. 

Most people either didn't *"get"* it, or didn't think it was funny.

So what's the point of this story?

Well, *aside* from just being another chapter in using the blockchain to document various aspects of life, it's also intended as a reminder that we humans are all unique and different... and just because we might not happen to fit the *"preferred mode"* of our culture *at the moment* doesn't necessarily mean there's something *wrong* with us as individuals.

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Heck, it even took me a long time to become proficient at *Hive!*

People have different uses and skill sets. For some situations, it's perfectly normal to prefer someone who can grasp a concept and run with it right away... even if all they do is end up being *"proficient"* with it. In other situations, it might offer a better payoff to consider the *"end run"* of someone's potential... taking the much *longer* path to ending up with an *expert* on your team.

It's just a shame that we tend to live in a very *impatient* world...

Thanks for reading, and have a great Friday!

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