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Husband: assalamualaikum ...
* mother: waalaikumsalam
lho nak kok tumben go home not tell me where is your wife ... ??
Husband: wife at home bu, I do not tell my wife if you want to go here hehehe ...
Mother: why why ...? Yes I can not lho kyak .. ??
Husband: bu I want to ask, as busy is it a housewife ... ??
Mother: why ... ?? You have same problem your wife .. ??

Husband: yes I am confused aja bu .. ?? House never sorted out ... ?? Every night complained tired
while I work every day just wrote aja. Odd anymore bu why my wife never dressed. Though it's an obligation the wife should look beautiful in front of her husband. I see my mother is not always as busy as my wife.
Mother: son, hear good mother, housewife job is not much. Just dwell on cleaning home cooking and child's grooming. But the work is really draining and thinking. Try to see where did your wife do a job to finish ...?
Your wife is doing a few jobs at a time. Because if not like that will not finish.
Husband: but why is the house rarely tidy ... ??

Mother: because your wife prioritizes your children more than anything else. While the job of taking care of the child is very fun. But it takes patience and extra patience. So that your children do not fall not cry and get enough attention from his mother. So it is appropriate that every day your wife complains tired.
But really only on the lips only. She's complaining about being tired because she's just provoking you. To ask for your little attention in her spare time. When your baby has fallen asleep.

Husband: but Mom, do not get a chance to take care of him for a little while. It used to be a lot of luluran is the facial is the spa.

Mother: he he he my son my daughter is actually a woman is very fond of spoiled. No woman who refuses to facial luluran let alone a spa.
But back again when your wife just opened her combat equipment (read: cosmetics). Suddenly your child is crying. And finally not so he took care of him. Let alone luluran for a housewife who has a small child. Shower bath water alone has become a drug for tired who he felt.
So do not once you compare your wife especially with your coworkers or other women who look so beautiful with polesannya.
He has sacrificed to give up the time he loves most to take care of your children and you.
You see a normal mother because it's a big mother.
So also with your wife when your child is big.
He will pay more attention to himself and take care of himself again.
Remember the mother's message
Submit your views when you see another woman, if you do not bend the view then out there you will always see the beauty while the shortcomings are always on your wife, be patient do not let you tempted with other women just because your wife is not dressed up.
Besabarlah, like a bent bone can not be forced straight except with tenderness.
Love your wife, spend a little time for him to get rid of fatigue and fatigue :)
My pray  :
"May Allah give us a sholeh husband, whose love will never fade despite the intermittent ..." Amiiiin.



Language in Indonesia

:: KISAH ISTRI YANG TIDAK BERDANDAN ::

Suami: assalamualaikum...
*ibu: waalaikumsalam
lho nak kok tumben pulang gak bilang bilang mana istrimu...??
Suami:istri di rumah bu, saya gak bilang ke istri kalau mau ke sini hehehe...
Ibu: lho kenapa...? Ya gak boleh lho kyak gitu..??
Suami: bu saya mau tanya, se sibuk itukah jadi ibu rumah tangga...??
Ibu: kenapa...?? Kamu ada masalah sama istrimu..??

Suami: ya saya bingung aja bu..?? Rumah gak pernah beres...?? Tiap malam mengeluh capek
sedangkan saya yg kerja tiap hari aja biasa aja. Yg aneh lagi bu kenapa istri saya tidak pernah berdandan. Padahal itu kan sebuah kewajiban istri harus terlihat cantik di depan suami. Saya liat ibu kok biasa aja gak pernah sesibuk istri saya.
Ibu: nak, dengar ibu baik-baik , pekerjaan ibu rumah tangga memang tidak banyak. Hanya berkutat pada membersihkan rumah memasak dan menggurus anak. Tapi pekerjaan itu sungguh menguras tenaga dan pikiran. Coba liat mana pernah istrimu mengerjakan suatu pekerjaan sampai selesai...?
Yg istrimu lakukan pasti mengerjakan beberapa pekerjaan dalam satu waktu. Karena apabila tidak seperti itu tidak akan selesai-selesai.
Suami: tetapi kenapa rumah jarang sekali rapi...??

Ibu: karena istrimu lebih memprioritaskan anak-anakmu dari pada segalanya. Sedangkan pekerjaan mengurus anak memang sangat menyenangkan. Tetapi membutuhkan kesabaran dan ketelatenan yg ekstra. Agar anak-anakmu tidak jatuh tidak nangis dan mendapatkan perhatian yg cukup dari ibunya. Jadi pantas lah kalau tiap hari istrimu mengeluh capek.
Tetapi sesungguhnya hanya di bibir saja. Dia mengeluh capek karena sebetulnya dia hanya memancingmu. Untuk meminta sedikit perhatianmu di waktu senggangnya. Ketika buah hati kalian telah tertidur pulas.

Suami: tetapi bu, tidak sempatkah dia merawat dirinya sebentar saja. Dulu saja sering sekali yg luluran lah yg facial lah yg spa lah.

Ibu: he he he anakku anakku sejatinya seorang wanita itu sangat suka di manja. Tidak ada wanita mana pun yg menolak untuk facial luluran apalagi spa.
Tapi kembali lagi ketika istrimu baru saja membuka perlengkapan tempurnya (baca: kosmetik). Tiba tiba terdengar anakmu menangis. Dan akhirnya tidak jadi lah dia merawat dirinya. Jangankan luluran bagi seorang ibu rumah tangga yg punya anak kecil. Guyuran air mandi saja sudah menjadi obat bagi capek yg dia rasakan.
Jadi jangan sekali kali kau banding-bandingkan istrimu apalagi dengan teman kerjamu atau wanita lain yg terlihat begitu cantik dengan polesannya.
Dia sudah berkorban merelakan waktu yg paling dia senangi untuk mengurus anak-anakmu dan kamu.
Kamu melihat ibu biasa saja karena memang anak ibu sudah besar-besar.
Begitu juga dengan istrimu nanti ketika anak kalian sudah besar.
Dia akan lebih memperhatikan dirinya dan merawat diri lagi.
Ingat nak pesan ibu
Tundukan pandanganmu saat melihat wanita lain, jika tdk kau tundukan pandangan maka diluar sana kamu akan selalu melihat keindahan sedangkan kekurangan selalu berada pada istrimu, bersabarlah nak jangan sampai kau tergoda dengan perempuan lain hanya karena istrikmu tidak berdandan.
Besabarlah , ibarat tulang yg bengkok tdk bisa dipaksa lurus kecuali dgn kelembutan.
Sayangi istrimu, luangkan sedikit waktu untuk dia mengusir kelelahan dan kepenatannya :)
Do'aku  : 
"Semoga Allah memberi kita suami yang sholeh,yg cintanya takkan pernah luntur walaupun dihempas masa... "Amiiiin.