Hey-hey Steemian,

Yesterday, I had a full day, lots of friends came to visit me at my bakery and I also had a small party, cuz why not? Champagne and cake are always good ideas 🍷

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And as a gift for myself, I thought I should write down some thoughts, just to celebrate this moment of my life. They’re not all mature or deep, but “life is a beach” right?!

1. It’s ok to be vulnerable.
2. Test your shame resilience as much as you can. Everyday! 
3. Smile even to people you don’t know! 
4. Always drink wine instead of cocktails! That’s a very important thought, especially when you’re almost drunk.
5. Don’t waste your mind as you waste your money!
6. You don’t have to be cool!
7. You don’t have to prove to anyone anything.
8. It’s ok to make bad decisions sometimes.
9. Learn to forgive myself. I’m working hard here.
10. What if, if i would have, do not exist.
11. Read a lot and learn. Do not forget that your brain is a muscle. Needs intensive training.
12. Be kind with your family, friend, yourself, colleagues, everyone in general.
13. Ignorance is bliss. Sad, but that’s the truth.
14. Shit happens, it also dissappears. Train your nose aka your attitude. shit doesn’t smell so bad if you have a proper attitude! 
14. I have amazing friends. And the best partner in crime @rodix
15. Love. Breathe in. Breathe out. Love. 
16. But first, love yourself! 

Annnddd: eat dessert first, life is too short!

Yours,
FoxxyCat