***What do women really want?***
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I was just surfing the net the other day and I bumped into this big question, what do women really went? They person was just poking fun at them though but I found it quite interesting.

There is reality TV show going on in Africa at the moment and particularly in Nigeria called ***big Brother Naija***, where young guys are put into a house and monitored for some three months or so, to be honest i don't follow it but if you chech this tag #bbnaija you will agree with me that you can't hide from it.

Long story short, there is this guy that went into the house, cooks, cleans, honest and quiet, cool from every definition of the word, the ***textbook guy*** because he is all ladies say they want. 

But almost all the guys either got laid or got a kiss while on the show but he got nothing till he got out of the show not even a girl, this is a show where you are not restricted to do anything, you could fuck, Kiss's and date while on the show, it's over three months so don't blame those that do.

So it got me thinking, it is no more news that ladies don't mean what they say, or mean what they feel. So here are my concerns.

*How are we sure they mean what they say?*

*How do we figure out what they really want?*

*what do they really want?*

This is coming at a time when there are several feminist movement making the rounds and getting attention, ***don't crucify me yet***, am a lover of Women and their rights of course but how can we be sure we know they mean being a feminine or gender friendly person, what does the feminist movement entails? Is it equal rights and opportunities or being selective in spheres and fields that favours them and us.

*How can we be sure that getting this rights and feminist movements adopted and working will actually satisfy them and can we ask if they are really needs for these rights? And are we really marginalized?*

*Can we also have specifics? Like what and what are the areas that need concern?*

Am sorry if I sound like an anti feminist but I guess am just curious and that is the right thing to do right? Be curious genuinely!! Am in love with a lady and nothing else will make me as happy as her being happy, but if can't be comfortable in this world then am screwed for sure!!