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If I were asked this question years ago I definitely would have said my biggest fear is not having food to eat everyday as I wake up, or even entering into a wrong relationship with the opposite sex but now alternatively they have all changed, and I would like to say that this biggest fear of mine sometimes pushes me to become a better version of myself and not walk in the mistakes of others, so in that note I will like to start by saying good day everyone, hope you are all doing perfectly fine? For my first prompt in this week I would be participating on the contest topic which says my biggest fear, I might not guess correctly what's yours but I will like to share with you what mine is.


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One of my biggest fear is loosing my parents and not having to be with them again, one I sit and think how the world would be without my parents in it one day fear would just grip me, I keep wondering how people survive and move on after the lose of a loved one and I would think they might be so strong or a supernatural strength, I really use to feel for them and I will be wondering if they cry in silent when no one is there, sometimes all those thoughts keep flashing in my head and it will just be indescribable but reality check also has a sharp voice, nobody lives forever naked we came and naked we shall go, my prayers would always be may God keep them to eat the fruit of their labours.

Another biggest fear is that after all these struggling, sacrifices, toiling and our hustle, let me not miss it at the end. You know as i walk daily on the street or even in market places I see people hawking, or begging others for money, I see people pushing wheelbarrow, I see young pregnant and unkept ladies selling vegetables at the edge of the market, and after seeing all these people I keep asking myself where did they miss it in life to have to end up in this situation, was it that they had no opportunities or they made wrong choices or they never had someone to guide them, where exactly did they miss it because I am meant to understand that everyone was born with a purpose and there was a reason they were brought to this earth.

My fear is that after all I have given up like not following my mates to do what they are doing that isn't moral, to enjoy life now (just as they say it), to flex and cruise around, like literally cut off from things others are doing not because I am too perfect for them but because I have my eyes fixed on a price and every weight must be laid aside, after all of these let it not be heard that I missed it at the end, that my end wasn't glorious, that I missed purpose and mandate over my life. To overcome these fears is not a day job, the number one way to actually start is by facing those fears, what I have been employing to face those fears of mine is by positive talks, am not telling those positive talks to others but to myself.

Positive talk is one way to silence those voices within that keeps pulling you back and draining you, by encouraging myself with positive words of affirmation countering those negative words you would be relieved again, another way I use to overcome those fears is by examining what use to trigger those moments and once I know that such things trigger those fears I tend to avoid them, the last way I used to overcome those fears is by agreeing that these are my fears and so I accept it because fighting them would only set you back.

Thank you for your time and I hope you had fun while at it, I still remain your girl @graceze, see you next time.

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