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<div class="text-justify">  In my life a lot of people I meet have similar traits to their parents other than the looks.. it's like the universal thing that childrens anywhere around the world do have the same traits and characteristics as their parents and it's like we inherit those little thing from them. 


<br> I've been told by my relatives that I'm same as my mom like the traits she have is something I've inherited and people see that clearly. The way it helps me in life and have an impact is something I'll reflect on in this post. 

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<b> Traits From My Mom: Staying kind and Honest in all situations </b> 

<br> One thing I always love about my mom is she's kind to every person even the one who did wrong and being honest all the time.

There's a lot of times when I was a kid and caught in bad situations where other kid would've lied to avoid any consequences but since then I can't lie to anyone.

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For a minute my mind says I can save myself easily by just lying about it and than when it's time to tell I'll be the one speaking the truth even when I thought of saying a lie to escape.

I've seen the same thing with my mom.. my grandma also told me she couldn't lie and always have been honest no matter if the situation is bad and it's her mistake and because of the honesty she used to show kindness and that thing is what I've seen in my mother and than myself.

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<b> The way I deal with problems in life </b> 

There are similar things in my and mom's life.. she gone through a lot of struggles and problems in her entire life.. the way she lost her father (my grandpa) and the way I did is same.

Since the beginning she had shown strength and was independently growing us.

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Now when I'm mature enough I'm aware of all the responsibilities and there's like new problems in life everyday but hadn't thought of giving up for once and have that strength like she do. 

I have learnt from her that in life we go through situations we don't expect and want.. but we have to experience it and live with it every second but instead of regretting about things we care about what we have and focus on the better side, there's always a way out of problems and it's actually on us to bring the positive changes in life. 

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<b> The impact of these traits on my life </b> 

I'm more like proud of the similar traits and characteristics I've from my mom.. it had positive impact on my life.. helped me through the situations plenty of time.

The kindness I've shown and everytime I've been honest I felt like it's the best thing I did in that moment. 

I've seen some worst situation turning into good one just because of being honest. It's the side of life I want to hold onto and forget about all the other bad things.

<b> Wrapping Up...</b> 

In the end It's feels good when someone sees and notice that thing we did just reflected something about our parents to that other person.

Also I guess we not only get genes from parents but also their personality because we live most of our life with them.

Well, I hope you found this interesting and would love to know your thoughts about it in the comments.

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