<div class = "text-justify"> <p> Hello to all the steemians! First of all, I write to thank each one of you for the minutes that you can devote to my publications, which I do with love, waiting as always for your appreciation and usefulness for my readers. </ p> </ div>
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<div class = "text-justify"> <p> Yesterday I was reading my friend @ilazramusic, who made a post entitled <i> "let's put old love in fashion" </ i>; and I really liked her reflection that the way of love has been lost, where every day the demonstrations or tests on the feelings must be demanded, product to the lack of sincerity of the people. At the beginning of the text, he mentions that people <i> "come to think that they have loved lying to each other, in the presence of toxic relationships" </ i>, in which, a false and worked idea is generated, which generates control and scam. Both both processes today I relate and identified with <b> EMOTIONAL SCAM! </ b>. </ p> </ div>
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<div class = "text-justify"> <p> Just as they read it, something strange, no ?, usually; The human being is used to talking about economic scams, which without a doubt, can generate psychological imbalances, mood or behavior. However, emotional scams can eventually cause similar imbalances, coupled with strong depressive and metabolic processes. </ P> </ div>
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 <div class = "text-justify"> <p> The best example of an emotional scam is the one that Venezuela knows as the <b> <i> "GUAYAR MORAL" </ i> </ b>, the illusion of want what is not possible or what is not. It is the total breakdown of expectations based on false beliefs mounted by a person who acts without doubt as a scammer. </ p> </ div>
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<div class = "text-justify"> <p> This scam process, to my way of thinking that is nothing more than that situation, in which a person generates a premeditated game with your feelings, illusions, beliefs, sexuality and with your emotions to get pleasure in many cases, or satisfy some particular interest. The fact is that the scam is known because the lies are discovered and abandonment usually occurs without reason. </ P> </ div>
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<div class = "text-justify"> <p> The scammer (Man or woman), does everything possible based on their own well-being, the day less thinking without reason and without reason leaves you, leaves you and does not respect your pain, washing your hands, but also making you believe that it is your fault and leaving only tears and an infinite void that can trigger, without any doubt, the breaking of the person being cheated. </ p> </ div>
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<div class = "text-justify"> <p> The person being cheated, not for making her a victim, is bankrupt because she never expected such a deception from that person and how to do it, when there were facts and evidence associated with what we know. as love, laughter, integration and trust. However, emotional scammers know how to act very well and that is why you never realize this scam until they leave you, because they get tired, because they already lived you or because they lose the lie they have around them, and that they respect part of life. </ p> </ div>
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<div class = "text-justify"> <p> People who are cheated are usually left in a duel, adrift. In a state where they can not understand how it is that their feelings became nothing and with a coldness in their hearts for all that they have stolen. Just the most sacred, that which he delivered with faith, trust, loyalty and fidelity. </ P> </ div>
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<div class = "text-justify"> <p> In these cases there is no real awareness of the damage caused, in which many times the person manages to start from scratch, because the goals set were a lie, and must remake everything , because they remain in the air mentally and emotionally. In many cases, these people are admirable because even with broken hearts they smile, love and keep fighting. However, there are people who do not overcome this type of scams, even to the death of their hopes and the surrender of new reasons and steps of life. </ P> </ div>
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<div class = "text-justify"> <p> It is clear that the scammer has an advantage over the scam, because he knows his vulnerabilities very well and knows how to act to manipulate. But, it may be that the person cheated unconsciously, is part of responsibility in forming the foundations of uncertain illusions that lead to disillusionment. . </ p> </ div>
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<div class = "text-justify"> <p> I can only say, that it is terrible because often, the emotionally conned person remains in a state of thought of what he could have done wrong, that all the responsibility of deceit has it he and that the scammer did absolutely nothing to harm, he simply walks away from the scamming behaviors. </ p> </ div>
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<div class = "text-justify"> <p> Therefore I open a little the way of reflection, that these scams can generate irreparable damage, to people who give you more than their feelings unconditionally. Based on the above, be sincere, consistent with their ideals, words, tastes to avoid irreparable damage. Walk with prudence and patience, so that you can really know each of the signs that point to a true relationship, based on respect, tolerance, laughter, support, fidelity and above all sincerity. Indestructible blocks in my opinion of any kind of human relationship. </ P> </ div>
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<div class = "text-justify"> <p> In short, as my friend says <i> "Remember to love with sincerity, because loving in times of hate is the most beautiful way to be rebellious and happy </ i> (@ilazramusic, Steemit-2018) "). </ p> </ div>
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