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Love ... love.... How can you determine that the person you met is really your person, the one who will understand you not even with a half-word, but with a glance? What to do if you have not yet met your soul mate?

It often happens that people live according to the scenario that was laid down from childhood, respectively, and the life partner they are looking for, based on the images of childhood. All these books and fairy tales about magic castles, a beautiful Prince and a magnificent Princess, incredible love stories, certainly left a mark in your memory and now in real and adult life live in the form of illusions. 

People who have not yet grown up dream to meet a fairy-tale hero who will make him or her happy, give life colors and expect that from the moment you meet such a person, all miracles will be performed and will be all as in those children's stories: "Wedding. And they lived happily ever after." 

Why is all the fun in the stories of magical love ends with a wedding? What happened next, how they woke up every morning, why do not describe the working days, everyday problems and life itself in the future? 

Everything seems to be simple, to meet him or her, to fall in love and get married. But how to find your person to the words "they lived happily ever after" were not only the end of the fairy tale, but also the continuation of everyday life?

First you need to grow up, become a person, a person who is able to make important decisions and take responsibility for their lives. Develop skills such as independence, emotional balance, commitment, understanding of the social roles of each person. Gain self-confidence and a stable position in life.


Learn to love, because it is not enough to love only you. You yourself should be able to give love, joy, tenderness and make a person happy. Love yourself and other people, help them selflessly and take care of them, be kind. 

Determine for yourself who you want to see next to you, what should be this person. No need to look in your future husband father who can solve all your problems and protect you, also the future wife should not be your mother and only take care of you. 

What character traits should be in your future elect or lady, what should be required, and what qualities you will not put up and accept. This must be done, so that then not to make claims to another person, regarding the traits of his character and try to change the person. You have to accept the person what he is, otherwise the relationship is doomed to failure. 

Once you have understood approximately what kind of person you need, what should be of yourself, what positive qualities you have, you can go to the question " how to find your person?"


Patience.

Please be patient, no one promised you that you will meet the person with whom you will be comfortable tomorrow. Do not hang on the labels of loneliness, see ahead and around you, can be that person next to you.


Environment. 

Look at your surroundings. Isn't there that man, maybe you just haven't noticed him before? See what kind of people you communicate with, how likely is it that the person you are looking for will meet you in this company?


Act. 

Just sit and expect that you will find yourself and come to you, at least silly. Search, communicate in real life, on the Internet, meet. 


Work on yourself. 

Start to develop and attend various exhibitions, seminars, trainings. Be a fully developed person who can be an interesting interlocutor and a reliable person.

Perhaps this is only General recommendations. Each person is different and only you can know what kind of person will be yours. There's no loneliness, there is, so until that man met. Remember, do not wait until you are happy, be happy, give warmth and joy.




























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