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In my story today, I can tell you that....Yes, I know a lot of people like that, and on many occasions, the best solution is to do nothing and wait.

Why? Because sometimes, taking distance is necessary. In fact, understanding that you can't fix everything right away is a profoundly intelligent act. 

In life we must face situations that overwhelm us and make us feel powerless. We want to solve everything right away, but what happens when we can't?

It is essential to explore the importance of taking a step back to observe, without acting immediately.

This simple gesture can change your perspective and offer you clarity in times of confusion. 

I know that I can be hateful to many because I have no filter when it comes to speaking or saying what I feel. 

(Although in the photos yes 😂)As well as ratifies it, Aliza the pet iguana of the family who for six years has lived among us, giving herself, without so much rigidity.

But it turns out that I feel light because I always say EVERYTHING I think (sooner or later waiting for the right moment if it's not) and people find that unfriendly because they like to live in lies because of their little resistance to pain, or they are the people who belong to the crystal generation.

They always prefer to walk (conscious or not), evading or immersed in their comfort zone.

Either way, when someone we trust cheats on us, it doesn't just break a pact, it breaks something inside of us.

I have no doubt that the most fucked up thing about betrayal is not only that they lie to you, it's that they force you to doubt yourself, and self-esteem collapses.

Once we love from low self-esteem, first of all, we are not loving ourselves, and two (2), we are very poorly loving the other. It's like being emotionally stuck, in quicksand that the more you get agitated the more we sink.

Life sometimes screams at the top of its lungs that this is not our place, and we have to listen to her because she always has better plans for us. Let's not despair.

There comes a time when we understand that everything changes and nothing is forever. Sometimes stubbornness makes us stay where we are no longer valued and somehow we get out of there by hook or by crook, to let go and be able to receive what we truly deserve.

I get annoyed by rigid postures. This message is for me, for you if you are in the process of letting someone go, letting go of a project, or letting go of some future plans.

There are blows that don't kill us... but that do mess up life. And it is there, in that emotional chaos, where the real work of resilience begins, which is NOT to resist as if nothing were happening. It is to rebuild ourselves with what is left.

Janitze.🌷

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Any images in this post are taken with my iPhone 12, the Infinix pro-note 30 or with the camera eighties Rolleiflex 2.8 f, and edited by me with [Canva]( https://www.canva.com/)  

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