## <center> We often hear or say: "* I can not anymore! *" </center>

BUT: we omit * I need help *


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</div> Today I was remembering many of those moments when I said or thought: "I can not anymore, I give up", but he did not say: "I need HELP!"
I am still alive and I have always found a reason to continue and there was someone to help me.
Those moments where leaving is NOT an option.

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Age differences can distance or bring people closer to both those who suffer and who can help.

What for an adolescent is the end of everything, perhaps for me it is a waste of time only. Today as an adult I am no longer affected by what affected me when I was younger.
Nor do I have the same responsibilities and duties as when I was younger.

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</div> The terrible thing about all this is that if it is not us who are going through this difficult moment, the first thing we do is judge or ignore because it does not affect us. In this way we also move away from who suffers it.

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*A part of my story made me understand that if you are not interested in the problem of the other you are not a part.*

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I am a Christian, son of God. At a very difficult time for me, I was going through a marriage separation.
*For me it was the end of everything*. And I was looking for help, consolation, answers, I needed someone to listen to me and accompany me in pain because no one would give me the solution. I needed someone to connect emotionally with me.
The pain was such that I found no comfort in NOTHING.
The people who had the role of leader or spiritual advisor tried to cheer me up saying "We will pray for you brother", Thank God for it, but I needed someone to cry with me.

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All this taught me that we should mourn with those who cry and laugh with those who laugh, and be the support of those who suffer. So far it is one of the most effective ways to connect and help someone in crisis.

That person needs encouragement, and above all FORCES. There we enter the scene, we lend our ear, shoulder and time.

For many is what less value has for whom it is suffering is the most valuable thing there is and the terrible thing is that you can not buy it only has to exist someone who gives it away, and that can be YOU.

I assure you that after giving that away at the right time, that person will NEVER forget about you.

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There comes the reason, the strength to follow is born. There is the opportunity to SAVE A LIFE.
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Reflecting on all this, I was able to take stock of the people I could help, then I feel that I am a debtor (It is still little). THIS IS A MOTIVE FOR ADVANCING.
Today I have the grace to work surrounded by youth and adolescents, and closer to them I see their needs better and my experience has been a great book from which I learned and I can practice what I learned by adding value to others and lending my ear, shoulder, and weather.
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The majority omits VERBALLY "I need help", but throughout the processes and learning we understand the "I need help" NOT VERBAL.

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We become like a kind of people who come to the rescue in a timely manner. understanding that the person who kicks, shakes his head, screams and says nothing is because he is drowning.

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## I invite you to share your experience, either as who helped or who has suffered.

Thank you very much for your votes, for your comment and for sharing.