<strong>1. If you do not have what you want, then you do not want it</strong>
Stop lying to yourself that you want to be rich or successful. We have exactly what we want. If there is not enough money, then you are so comfortable. If a number of partners with whom it is bad, then there is a need to suffer.

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<strong>2. You are treated the way you want it to be</strong>
Surely you noticed that to good people their relatives and colleagues are frankly bad. Often we ask ourselves the question: "How did I deserve such an attitude?" 

<strong>3. You yourself can create successful opportunities</strong>
You can wait until fate will give a suitable partner or a good job. You can apply for yourself on job sites or go where you usually meet. And you can offer your candidacy to the company or go to the person you like and get acquainted.

<strong>4. No one in this world should do anything.</strong>
No children, no wife, no society, no own guinea pig. It's worth remembering that we should not be loved, we should not be taken care of and should not be treated with respect.

<strong>5. Over time, life will not become easier and better</strong>

How pleasant it is to reassure yourself that we are going to suffer, but then someday everything will necessarily improve, it will become good, a truck with gingerbread will turn over on our street, then we will live.