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Falling in love does make someone feel happy. However, what happens if you are rejected by someone you love? Certainly cause hurt, right? For some people, it might be easy to let go of this heartache and restore the next life to the right. However, for most people, hurt makes them not have enthusiasm in reach anymore.

Being hurt for too long will only make you suffer. It's sad, but not to make you worse off and get your daily activities requested. Immediately overcome heartache with the following things!

* **1. Accept the Decision and Self Introspection**

Everyone has the right to express their feelings to the person they love. Like you who said your love for someone. However, you do not have the right to get the answers you want from the people you care about. He also has the right to reject your love for certain reasons. When you are rejected and have heard the reason, try to accept the reason. Appreciate the decision, do introspection to improve yourself next.

* **2. Do not blame yourself**

There is no advantage in blaming yourself after being rejected. Don't assume that you have many shortcomings, so you are rejected by someone you love. Realize that everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, maybe you are not the type so he rejects your love. No need to blame yourself, appreciate the decision, and believe that someday you will meet the person who match with you.

* **3. Stay in good relationship**

Even if it's rejected, don't hate it. These forms of feeling will actually make you more hurt. If he allows you to stay friends and establish communication, then establish a good relationship with him as a friend. If he asks you to stay away from him, then keep his distance but don't hate him. Moreover, have the evil intention to take revenge because they feel hurt.

* **4. Gather with Your Close Friends**

Overcome hurt by gathering with your close friends. It's not the time to sad too long, enjoy your togetherness and happiness with friends. Do positive activities together, because this method can help you cure heartache because of rejection.

* **5. Enjoy Hobbies**

Finally, you can distract yourself from being rejected by enjoying your hobby. Do whatever you like, as long as it is positive. Maximize your hobbies and enjoy your days. Don't look sad and slumped to not do anything. Try to think adult and not get hurt in heartache for too long.

Still hurt by being rejected? You can do some of the tips above. Everyone may have their own way to cure heartache. Whatever the way, heal your heart with positive things.

[Original in Bahasa](https://steemit.com/life/@khanza.aulia/tips-atasi-sakit-hati-saat-ditolak-orang-yang-disayang)

**Referensi:**
*[Referensi 01](https://cintalia.com/cinta/tips-percintaan/cara-menghilangkan-patah-hati)*
*[Referensi 02](https://www.popbela.com/relationship/dating/windari-subangkit/cara-atasi-patah-hati-setelah-ditolak/full)*


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