Yes, I'm afraid to get married.

My age is 26 behind the scene reasons are there.

Fortunately or Unfortunately am elder one in my family and two younger brothers .
As off now i didn’t take any responsibility Reg: family. My father will take care of the all the things.

1)I don’t know how to mange a girl.

2)I don’t know how to ride bike and am doing things slow.

3)I have too patience i won’t say anything to anyone if they scold or playing jokes on me but ,if my ego hurt by my family or friends i won’t talk with them.It will take so many years back to the normal situation.I know Ego is useless but i have .Don’t know how to reduce or control.

4)If my wife Consider as a advantage doing politics on above (2 point) reason with out noticing me result may be i live her or am separate from my parents .

5)And am money minded(Miser) after marriage if any clash due to money with my wife or my family.….

5)So i don’t want to face this kind of shit .

6)My uncle (chota Chacha) very good character no bad habits .I saw my uncle worst situation after his marriage so many issues ,bcz of that my uncle faced so many health problems (BP,Sleepless nights,tensions).

7)My father side and mother side uncles(Apart from chota chacha ) are listening wife word’s only .

I also having same genes don’t know how to escape from marriage ,bcz i have two younger brothers parents will say first you marry later your brothers likeI was devastated when I heard the female voice, when I called my boyfriend of 10 Years and got a surprise that he just got married and its his wife on the line.

I felt betrayed and broken, couldn’t sleep that night, couldn’t even cry. there was a lump and so much pain in my heart. I couldn’t sleep that night and was just sitting on the sofa without moving completely shocked.

In the Morning My ex called me and explained me how he had to get married suddenly because his mother was not doing well and was not getting ready for our alliance.

Than the bigger shock was this for me when he was more worried for his wife that how since she took the call, she is asking constantly about this girl who is calling her husband in the late night and will always in doubt if her husband is having an affair.

I found how he is least bothered about me, how I took this sudden news and handling this and if I am doing fine.

That day I realized, how this relationship is a lie and the thing which I considered Love is nowhere to be seen.
This is my own point oo

I wont say, I realized immediately that this person has never loved me, It took me two to three years to gather myself and get over to him.

But now after 4 years when I look back and see, myself more composed, confident and emotional strong. I realized this has been a blessing in disguise and it has been the best thing of my life and we didn’t end up getting married and being in a messed up relationship. that.