[Continuation](https://steemit.com/psychology/@leonid96/women-cry-and-men-are-upset), part two ...
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Imagine this picture. Hospital, there is a woman at the window. Outside the window it's raining (sad rain). A woman stands and "quietly" cries. At this time, "her" child makes a simple operation, for example, remove appendicitis. Why is she crying. All for the same reason it is weak. But if, the person who is in the beginning of life, essentially is so, then the woman is by no means a weak creature. The reason is not weakness and weakness at the same time. The reason is inadequate perception of the situation. An incorrect assessment of their capabilities is given. Cry is a reaction to not ability, to do something, to influence something, to change something. But we must correctly determine what you are capable of, and what not. Really evaluate their capabilities. Children are still not capable of this, they are upset because of this. And the woman standing at the window is also wrong, she appreciated her abilities. She can not control the situation, with the operation, it's her and worries. There is such an expression. "You can not jump above your head." This is the philosophy of life. Yes, the child does not yet understand that it is not up to him. But an adult should know what he can, and what is not and do not arrange hysteria without reason. Cry, at first glance, a helpless person, the result is not a correct assessment of their capabilities.
Even a man, if overnight realized that the situation is out of control, will cry. But as a rule, men tend to adequately perceive their abilities and soberly assess the situation. Therefore, they seldom cry and do it by saying chagrin. Women are like little children who start to cry, just because they can not put another ring on the pyramid in the process of training. Because children and make hysterics. They are weak and can not influence the process. And not for the reason, not the ability to do something. They are essentially frustrated by their own weakness. Parents will be useful to comprehend this, to establish contact with children at such moments. Calming in such cases, will teach children to manipulate others with the help of crying. Teach the children correctly, and never cry, if it's not tears of joy.