Greetings to all of my readers. I hope you all had a wonderful day. I highly appreciated the likes, comments and sharing your thought related to my topics.  I did have a rough day yesterday and today. I am trying to be happy and cheerful to everyone I met outside. Deep inside of me have a deep sorrow. 

![speedometer_309118_1280.png](https://images.ecency.com/DQmPEUSvB19aMM8a2CqHpK8eVSEF3TXuVDdeTyuYHZhZu3P/speedometer_309118_1280.png)
[Image Source:](https://pixabay.com/vectors/speedometer-kilometers-dashboard-309118/)

I am still struggling to put a limit on people trying to test my patience and kindness towards them. Why I always the one who will adjust according to their needs and wants. Am I pushing over? Or I am just a soft hearted does not know how to put limitations. Nobody cares how I feel. They only know what to ask for and demand from me. Am I trying to escape  this misery? Or let them do what they want from me? I am trying not to cry but my  tears are coming out.  Even I explain everything to them why I can't give them what they asked for. They are angrier than you. When I say no, they are blaming me for everything and telling me I am useless. Why are these people are cruel?  My love is greater than their hurtful words.  Even it is killing me everyday! I forgive them over and over again.

To put a limit is a good thing. I am trying this procedure not to be an easy for anyone to be taken advantage of. It is  a tough process, but I am trying not to be swayed by their hurtful words. I can cry much as I want but never be shaken to do wrong towards them and let my stupid heart to continue to care for them. 

I knew most of us does not want to say no or put a limit to our love ones. Whatever we can do to help them, we opened our door.  Someone asked me this question before. Do you think you are really helping that person or you are just letting that person depends on you. It was my  turning point not to always give and put a limit to everything. I am not perfect, but it is still happening "love wins over material things." 

When you got push to your limit. it is really hard to have a stable relationship to that person. Enough is enough you don't need to stay and learn to let it go.  Choose to stay and accept whatever that person will give you his/her attention, time and commitment whenever it is only convenient for that person. It is a wake up call to put a limit now or you will regret it forever. 

It makes sense. You've come to recognize that what people want doesn't always help them. True love isn't about giving people what they want or what will make them happy for a time - but about enabling them to be and do God's purpose for them. It takes great wisdom and love not to give something when we could - but it's not really going to do what it seems like God wants to do. 
God's goal for us is not a life of ease - if Jesus is our example

This quote has inspired me and served as a reminder "you will never know your limit unless you push yourself to them." I am still hoping that everything will be under my spell. Every decision I will take, it should be done for something good and with love. 

Have a peaceful night to everyone. 
See you in my next post!