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We spend our lives looking for happiness.  We look forward to it in great things, in a stroke of luck as we get the lottery or find the love of our lives in the next corner.  We wait for it in others, as if suddenly a person were to change just to please us.  The fact is that we leave the responsibility of being happy in the hands of other people, or even the universe, and we do not realize that being happy depends, neither more nor less, on ourselves.

 It is not a revealing fact that we are the ones who direct our lives.  And yes, sometimes things happen that we did not have, but in part, the essence of our path tries to resolve conflicts and grow inside.  Just by taking the reins of your life, you can be happy.

 And if you want to start knowing how to do it, we recommend that you start by quitting complaining and making excuses.  Strive and take care of yourself are the two basic premises.  Do you want to know more about how to be happy?  

 Optimism is one of the essential qualities that a person must have in order to be happy.  Seeing the good side of things is no nonsense, and it is proven that when we are happy and positive, we can perform better and we dare everything.  Thus, it is easier to succeed in our objectives.

 But being an optimist is not a matter of a day, and if you want to start to change so that positivity is your new motto of life, we recommend that you stop thinking about complaints and start thinking about solutions.

 Remember that the important thing in life is trying, not getting.  So, if you have a plan, get going and enjoy the journey.  Motivation and optimism will help you move forward, and in this fight you will find true happiness.

 Encounter with God

 Another of the fundamental questions that will help your happiness is about God and yourself, Take care of yourself, love you, value yourself ... they are indispensable things to be happy, but before that there is something of vital importance: to know you.

 In these times, having time for ourselves is almost a utopia.  Therefore, the best way to take care of ourselves is to leave a little time for us.  You may be thinking that you do not have time, but we assure you that the investment in yourself will come out of the most profitable.

 Knowing ourselves is a way to save time in many other situations.  By understanding and knowing how to manage our emotions, we can better resolve conflicts and go for the goals we want.


 Far from being selfish, thinking about yourself is essential, not only to achieve happiness, but also to be able to make others happy, as far as possible.  To be happy you must think of yourself before anyone, because it is the only way to take care of ourselves as no one will.

 Thinking of yourself means that you think about what you want in life.  Few people stop to think about it, and instead, we do what they have automatically taught us.  Stop to think about your needs and your desires and then, the way to get them.

 Pursuing your dreams is the best possible way to think about you.  Your goals can be long or short term, but the important thing is that you do it because you want, and that is, if you do not enjoy trying, you can not be happy.  help those who need it and focus on having communion with God.


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