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<div class="text-justify"><p>All of us who have gone through the separation of our parents or parents who knew that the CPS knocks on the door of their house and that all happiness and gender since then, doubts, stress, traumas, inability to concentrate, problems economics, in opportunities addictions. In other words, the people who have been victims of them, know that they generate more consequences than the simple fact of having children or parents.</p></div>

<div class="text-justify"><p>Generates even consequences of life, this is to share with some of my ideas as a graduate in psychology, regarding the consequences generated by malpractice and illegal processes, miles of families, years ago, I hope it serves, as a strength for that when we decide to help, we do not do it only believing that making money to the needy or getting a lawyer is the only thing that can do and focus our strength.</p></div>

<div class="text-justify"><p>In many of the shared stories we have seen how there are infants who are victims again and again of assaults, or on the contrary guys who after escaping from the social service shelter initiate illicit behaviors such as the consumption of psychoactive drugs, robberies, kidnappings or get involved With gangs, we can know what leads these children to commit these actions? The answer is yes.</p></div>

## Boys who only learn that love is a way to attack

<div class="text-justify"><p>Many times, I read in your post that there are girls who were estranged from their biological families because one of their progrenitores was considerably violent, this was put into a replacement family and similarly attacked, later managed to escape and established a loving relationship with a violent man and unfortunately he died.</p></div>

<div class="text-justify"><p>If the social service separates an infant from their family members and places them in a replacement family, but does not teach them through psychotherapy that the aggressions are destructive that undermine both the physical body and the psyche, this person will only internalize that the aggressions are normal. My big question has always been, if the social service does not show any interest in the mental health of our children, as then they get outraged by their murders, after being attacked again and again.</p></div>

<div class="text-justify"><p>In this way the infant creates a behavioral pattern, only looking for individuals that cause harm because that is what he has learned from his family and although it generates fear, pain, is the only way as supposedly have shown affection.</p></div>

## Boys who are psychoactive or part of gangs

<div class="text-justify"><p>Similarly, in many of its publications I have read about infants who leave the correctional facilities, try to go to school and give up but, they meet with peers and they start to escape, to steal and even to consume addictive substances, which happens with these children? please pay attention, you can surely help someone who goes through this.</p></div>

<div class="text-justify"><p>The infant in view of being rejected by his family of origin (although the social service is the one that encourages separation, in many opportunities the adults do not explain to the children what is happening and this generates irrational beliefs in him, such as abandonment) , they submerge in groups of boys who also feel empty and generate a dependent relationship, because one needs the other to feel loved, needed and valuable but, to gain this emotional aspect, they need to carry out illegal conducts such as theft, secustro or Substance use, without having options, does it effectively.</p></div>

<div class="text-justify"><p>When an infant grows with dependent traits because it helps social service, by separating him from his family just when the personality bases were developing, he is going to find a way to fill that gap left by his parents and significant figures as a place.

These are just some of the imbalances that I have observed in their post as a consequence of social service.

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