Each child has different characters, and they can not be generalized because they are born with their own talents. However, all children can be taught to be confident not to be easily minder in when in the show and when he hang out with friends, if only parents understand how to teach it to them then the sense of not confident  will be lost. Because not confident is one of the biggest enemies that exist in a person, the feeling can be brought until a child's child grows up so that later can affect in his personal and social life.
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Then how to teach a child to have a good sense of confidence? Here are 6 ways I can summarize from the various experiences I have ever done on how to <a href="https://keluarga.com/906/6-cara-melatih-anak-agar-percaya-diri" target="_black">teach children </a>to have a good sense of confidence, among them are:

<h3>1. Do not scare</h3>
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Sometimes to make a deterrent child or to remind your child not to do something you do not expect in other words is a bad thing, as for the most efficient way that can be used is to frighten him. However, have you ever considered the long-term effects? Basically and we are investigation from the habit of scaring in the long run can make a child become easily pessimistic, the habit can be embedded in a child's mind so that his influence is only visible when a child will make a decision. You should tell the real reason why it is forbidden for him to do so, in a way that is so a child has a clear reason not to do a bad deed.
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<h3>2. Do not scold for no apparent reason</h3>
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Challenge as a parent is heavy, sometimes it affects your emotions. I remember when I was a kid once my parents scolded me for no apparent reason, as my son was unable to defend himself and prefer to remain silent in the room. Of course you can be angry, but your anger must have an excuse, so the child will know the wrong and hopefully not to repeat the same mistake.
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<h3>3. Do not mock</h3>
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Although the purpose of joking mocking habits can not be justified. <a href="https://keluarga.com/906/6-cara-melatih-anak-agar-percaya-diri" target="_black">A child </a> does not yet have a good understanding of communicating with other people, when he makes mistakes and it's funny how you think you should avoid taunting him. In the child's point of view the mistake he has done even if it is funny is a very shameful thing, you should still give him the spirit and teach him not to make the same mistake.
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<h3>4. Involve in making decisions</h3>
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In some cases involving the <a href="https://keluarga.com/906/6-cara-melatih-anak-agar-percaya-diri" target="_black">child </a> to make his own decisions you should try to do. Like what he should wear in a school farewell or what gift he should give to his friend. Getting the child to make his own decisions will train himself to be confident that the decisions he takes are correct and that you should support continuously.
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<h3>5. Do not spoil the child</h3>
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Well for mothers in particular, I realize that you are the one who contains it for 9 months. No matter how great your affection to your baby the habit of spoiling it should be avoided as much as possible, not you do not care but whether you also consider the future if you often spoil it. <a href="https://keluarga.com/906/6-cara-melatih-anak-agar-percaya-diri" target="_black">A child </a> who is often spoiled will depend entirely on his parents and it will carry on until he grows up. From now on train your child to do his own daily tasks and praise him for what he has done, the way it proves effective in evoking a child's confidence.
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<h3>6. Active communication</h3>
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No matter how busy you are, as a parent who cares about the development of his baby should you often take the time to converse with them. Light topics around school, friends or the hottest news can be your chat. Ask them to comment on an issue and ask their opinion of the incident, take your child to think critically in <a href="https://keluarga.com/906/6-cara-melatih-anak-agar-percaya-diri" target="_black">addressing everything.</a>

As a parent is a very extraordinary task, like a pottery craftsman. Parents have "clay" in his hands that he is forming as he wants. Your child too, they are like clay in your hands. Form them as well as you want and "burn" them in order to be a form that can benefit you, yourself and others. Thank you and my be usefull for all steemian friend.

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