I have been told numerous times by people that, "I can't do this." without giving that a try. But deep inside he or she has the ability to perform that. They don't even try to give up before that. People also stay away from these people instead of helping because who is already lost in his mind how will you drag him ahead. Cooperation from both sides would make the initiative successful.  Laziness and a lack of confidence is the biggest barrier for us in every work. Some people say I don't have the creativity to do something new, but trust me he never believed in himself that he could do something unique. He could give an output that would be his own. Who says we can't be creative?  We all just need to broaden our minds and exercise to work fluently. 

There is a proverb from ancient times that, "Necessity is the mother of invention." Yeah, That's true. It's been true from the beginning of human civilization and true till now and will be as long as the human survives. We get into problems and we create the solution. Without the problem, there was no need for a solution. It is the problem that created the solution. Even one hour ago I didn't know what to write. But some incidents from my life made me think about this topic. I have seen someone running away from a task for a long time thinking that isn’t his cup of tea without sipping it a few times. After a long period when that person started to sip he could understand what's that is, how to get himself adjusted with the temp of the element inside the cup. That's how we adjust and grab on something. 
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If I come to myself. I can still remember my broken English. Day by day they are being constructed. I won’t say that my English is too good but I have the confidence that I am being able to deliver pretty well what I am trying to say for the readers. Maybe the words and sentences are still at the average level but don’t you think I can acquire that too if I stick with it? I think I can but I don't know about you. Look, in my early stage, there were too many errors in my writing. I started to find a solution to this problem and I got that too. Well, this can be a piece of advice for you guys too. ***Google Doc*** is a pretty cool place to write your mind. While writing it will keep suggesting your errors and changing them to the possible correction. So this one is a helping hand in my writing. Another one is ***Grammarly*** It's also pretty amazing in Its work. I use the free version of it and I am quite satisfied with its help. If you are on the phone, you can use the Grammarly keyboard to overcome the errors in your writing. I have installed it on my phone and also added the extension on the browser for my pc. After writing the whole content you can simply copy-paste on your Grammarly account notepad to check the errors at once or you can correct them while writing one by one. So I use both of them together while writing which gives me confidence towards my writing.  So it was my necessity and I got my solution.  Find out yours too.

I get really mad at those who don't attempt to do a task and say it's not their cup of tea. When someone is lost mentally in the beginning without trying, helping him is a waste to me. In my school life, I had a friend who was very weak at English. I remember his hard work for learning. Once in an exam, we saw him getting mad,  tearing down the exam paper, and leaving the exam hall. Teachers didn’t say much to him because they knew how hard he was trying to overcome his weakness. So they cooperate with him. That's how we get help from others when they see the enthusiasm in us. The mentality of, "I can't do it" is really bullshit to me, nothing else.