Parenting as a very strong role to play in a child's life...
Without the father and mother, a kid's life can turn out to be upside down, even if he gets the best of care from anybody who is not his parent...

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Parents just have a way of transforming their child's life... Not all parent though.

Obviously all parents want their kids to be great in life, they want them to succeed, they want the very best for them, but some parents do not have what it takes to get that kid to where he/she should really be.
 
**Some reasons are as follow;** *Giving birth out of weird luck, Divorce, Maltreatment of either parent by the other, Time factor/time management, Far distance from kids, leaving them for a third party to take care of them, not enough love between the father and mother etc.*

All this things affect our kids and we seem not to notice, instead we blame the kid for being in serious, too playful, disrespectful, too dirty, too sluggish, too dull and stuffs.....

##### This things are things we as parent did not really look into.

A kid can not do something until he his taught, all he/she needs is description/direction on how to do it.
A growing up baby does everything you do, they learn from your every act, they emulate your every doing, they cannot do things without you doing them, except they learn it else where.

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But your duty as a parent is to do the right thing in front of this kids, because they are wiser than we think they are.

**Another thing you should really take serious is;** When you observe a new uncommon behaviour that they must have learnt outside the house that you're not so satisfied with, you caution them, If you don't, they won't stop... 

> Kids cannot know things when they are not told, even if they know it's bad, they still need to be told...

Its OK for a kid to be stubborn, you were also stubborn when you were a kid, you just need to know your kid and teach him/her the drills of life...

How to manage with life, the things to be done and things not to be done, instead of blaming them and flogging them all the time when they commit an atrocity hoping they'll change that way...

`Sit your kid down and have talks with them`

Don't be too unapproachable for your kid, in fact, that's like the greatest mistake to can make in the term of bringing up a child, because you'll never get to know your kid...

Your kid will be doing stuffs and you will never notice...

So be free and be a parent at the times they need you... Get them say things to you so you can lead them, say things to them to, make them feel blessed to have you, that way they'll try so hard not to disappoint you....
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**Note:** No matter how grown you are, you're a kid to your parent, even your parent as a parent.... Celebrate them today, surprise them in a way that will amaze them and receive divine blessing....
##### Stay blessed...