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“怨”这个词应该是“理解”的反义词，但它又没有“狠”那么严重，有时候怨这种情绪是可以忍受的。

我们都知道那些乐观的人很少抱怨，不是因为他们的生活有多美好，只不过他们懂得忍住情绪、调剂心情，有人问这些人是不是傻，可是明明心情不好又何必用抱怨使自己更负能量呢？

从小到大在不同的阶段我都有遇见喜欢抱怨的朋友，说实话真的令人感到压抑。

现在身边依然有这样的朋友，大多数是因为工作原因而抱怨，一聚会见面就抱怨，一聊微信就抱怨，一打电话就抱怨...

这时候作为朋友也只能听一听，别想着给别人做心里建设，因为有些性格是刻在一个人内心深处的，烦恼这东西有时候真的只能靠自己消化。

说塑料情谊也好，说不真诚也罢，往往我会和经常抱怨的朋友越来越疏远，因为对方会在不知不觉中降低你对生活的热情。

那么你是否遇到过这样的朋友？又是如何面对的呢？

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