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<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1.2em !important">开放式关系（Open Relationship）于十九世纪八十年代在美国被首次提出的，最先也只是流行于性思想比较开放的西方国家。随着女性性解放的不断推进及婚姻观念的不断改变，即便是比较保守的东方国家（中国、日本等）也逐渐出现这种生活方式。</p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1.2em !important">在历史的长河中，的确有成功的开放式关系。2017年上映的电影《马斯顿教授和神奇女侠》，就是改编自真实成功的开放式关系。</p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1.2em !important">著名漫画人物「神奇女侠」的创造者、知名心理学家威廉·马斯顿博士，是位拥有两位长期伴侣的BDSM（绑缚与调教、支配与臣服、施虐与受虐）爱好者。一位是同为心理学家的妻子，另一位是配合他和妻子实验的学生。这段关系中，既有同性恋和双性恋，也有异性恋。三人关系历经诸多磨砺后达到神奇的平衡，在他离世后两位女性还在一块抚养孩子。</p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1.2em !important">要处理好一段的开放式关系，你必须是以后对自己有充分认知、心智成熟、充满理智、情绪稳定的人。除此以外，你还需要有较高的沟通技巧，有能敏锐感知到对方需求的天赋。即使像著名哲学家萨特和女性主义代表人物的波伏娃那段著名的开放式关系里，也依然充满了吃醋、争吵、猜疑等各种人类常有的情绪。</p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1.2em !important">总的来说，开放式关系仍然是一种非常小众的生活方式，我对它的了解并不足以对其下任何定论。我身边有一些从一对一走向开放式关系的人，也有从开放式关系回到一对一关系的朋友。</p>
<p style="margin: 0px 0px 1.2em !important">对于这种生活方式，我抱着既不排斥诋毁也不盲目推崇的态度。</p>
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 <li style="margin: 0.5em 0px">Movie URL: (<a href="https://www.themoviedb.org/movie/390059-permission">https://www.themoviedb.org/movie/390059-permission</a>)</li>
 <li style="margin: 0.5em 0px">Critic: AA</li>
 <li style="margin: 0.5em 0px">영화 URL: (<a href="https://www.themoviedb.org/movie/390059-permission">https://www.themoviedb.org/movie/390059-permission</a>)</li>
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