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So I asked this question on other social media platforms;

Should a lover guard his love jealously?
Do you really think one can truly love without being jealous? Your opinion is needed. 

Here are some of the responses I got.

> It is ok to be jealous..but not to be over protective...cos if u don't give your spouse some space...they are not free with you.

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> No.... If you truly love someone some things would make you jealous  but then we are only human...... What makes it okay is how we act on that jealousy. 
That's why communication is key... Express every feeling to your partner and be open enough to let your partner do the same... 

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> Don't judge, don't jump to conclusions, don't be a bitch... Just listen, understand and see things from their perspective.

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> Jealousy is one attribute of love.
Needed... If I see no jealousy thus I see no love.
The issue is the wielder, like one given power but how he or she wields d said power.

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> I won't want you to be hugging and cuddling up with others when I'm with you, or calling others sweet names and the rest. I'm jealous, even our God is a jealous God.

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> Jealousy and love are mutually exclusive. We can love without being jealous. We should keep in mind that jealousy is a temporary, immature feeling that should go a way.
Jealousy Is not something to harbor as normal human feelings. Is something we should daily seek to evolve from.  Jealousy is a low level vibration, we should do a way with such fickle emotions. 
Love is to give.  Where is the place of jealousy in something that seek to give?
For the fact that we experience so much jealousy with love does not make it right. We should overcome pangs of jealousy.
Jealousy is a symptom of insecurity and inability of a human to come face to face with reality and it's heart. 
If you see your self being jealous, don't accept it as a normal feeling.  Don't attack your self, or feel bad.  See it for what it is.
That is your mind telling you that  you need some growing up in that area. 
To be jealous is a sign of selfishness. We should work to be free and let others be free.

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From the feedback I got, 80% believe it is Ok to be jealous, while 20% think it is wrong. 

Over to you. What is your opinion on this topic? Do you think it is OK to be jealous over your lover? I await your responses in comments below. 

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