For that question on my last post my answer is : Mind control (like the professor X typa gig)


.... So I was thinking about insecurities![IMG_20180226_005332_270.JPG](https://steemitimages.com/DQmRNZCtpQ4scsN6LqqP8qBBPbdKyjiAmvnfjPnhAbxKmk1/IMG_20180226_005332_270.JPG).
 Now with that we should be clearer on what it "simply"means.
Right? Cool!!

So the question that generally follow is : how do u get better at managing them?

Well the answers are somewhat " simple" u just gotta have a few basic things...

But first before that u need!!!!
*=>>>>*
 Will(Courage) ; y'know start small first...e.g like if u are afraid of making eye contacts for example and lets say u have dog. U could do a stare contest with it,lol or just simply get a mirror.

*1 - Then u start by *"accepting ur self"* .(e.g i used to know aguy who hated his legs cos they were k-legs...dude saw C.ronaldo later on that gave a big ass confidence boost)

 ![IMG_20180226_014208_167.JPG](https://steemitimages.com/DQmZJQZnQf1EasLFonCPiTZaFihMWDPu28MYCj3My5Nspfn/IMG_20180226_014208_167.JPG)

*2 - *Never compare ur self* - It just harms u its never a good idea. Always remember ur journeys are different.

*3 - *Being positive* - this is a very hard thing to do especially people dealing with depression and other hard situations like that...sometimes u need to just be a little more attentive or just change the people around you.

 
*4 - *Forgiving ur self* - Look!!! thing is there's no better way to say this other than: Life didnt come with a "how to" manual...so saying that,i will "simply" like to let you know or remember that u are probably doing the best u can and if u arent then u know u can do more...a lil' push isnt so bad.
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...There's a Yoruba street saying;
Si opolo sile: losely translates: open ur brain 

(open ur mind)


Change how u look at every thing,start from there,
Whew!!! (i'm lazy,nope.not sorry)
#ok,bye!!!