The Things We Can't Control
hive-147010·@phyna·
0.000 HBDThe Things We Can't Control
<liketuimages> <center>     </center> </liketuimages> We can't control people, we can't force them to stay when they want to go. It may be difficult, but when their emotions and feelings for us are dead, there's nothing else we can do about it. No amount of apology or advice will bring them back. At first, I used to think that I could fight for anything, including friends. Especially when I hear some people say “I always get what I want no matter what “ This hasn't worked for me, I don't know if it's just me but I can't go after anybody who left me, or doesn't want to stay with me. I respect boundaries a lot. I can remember when I lost one of my male friends to some other girl, I felt really bad, but I wasn't jealous in any way. I just liked the young man and wanted us to be just friends, but he wanted more so he left. I knew I tried getting him back but the conditions were not favorable. I later gave up and saw him in a different light. and wondered what had made me want to be his friend. The same goes with girlfriends, I made a lot of girlfriends but very few are actually my friends. One of them inspired me to write this because she's giving me attitude for no reason. I decided to give her space, and then use this period to reflect on our friendship, and figure out whether it is worth crying for or not because I actually cried after her cold response to my call yesterday night. I asked myself countless times, why get emotionally attached to people? Wouldn't it be fine to just relate with them without taking them to heart? Or is it me that is lacking the ability to carry everybody along? People aren't that difficult to understand, but people are difficult to be trusted. Is it a good thing to avoid friends who suddenly become your frenemy? For me I don't avoid them, instead, I keep on smiling and act like there's nothing wrong until they are ready to spill it out, or until I have discovered the reason behind the change of attitude. My reason is that she may be passing through a lot, and doesn't feel like talking about it. Whatever way, I just hope everything turns out well. Because I don't like losing friends, and I don't force friends to stay either. Good and loyal friends are hard to find, if you've got one already be grateful for having him/her. That will be all for today. - - - *Happy Sunday to you all. Today's mass was great as we celebrated Christ as the universal king. I took some pictures after the mass and decided to share them with you, together with what is going on with me at the moment.* --- For the best experience view this post on [Liketu](https://liketu.com/@phyna/the-things-we-cant-control)
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