Trust is a very important thing in the life of a human being because trust is something that he does not trust many people. But once the trust is established, he does not think about it again. He starts trusting it blindly. Trust is only found in something like consistency, honesty and mutual respect. consistency means how reliable and steady your actions are if someone speaks against you, whether you still trust them or not but honesty is a very important thing that if someone is telling you something honestly, they are not lying to you You are speaking the truth and mutual respect means that you should respect each other mutually and neither should you say something to him that he feels bad nor is it such that it gives you confidence, these three things are the pillars of any trust or relationship.


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The most common way is to build trust. Dishonesty is that people lie to each other and this is the worst thing that if you are trusting someone fully then why can he lie to you. First you trust him completely but you should not trust him because whenever you trust someone completely then he starts taking advantage of your trust. First he lies to you. Then after that he disrespects you and slowly he loses everything from you. That is why I believe that trust is something that you should give to someone after thinking a lot like I had placed my trust in my friend, but he betrayed it in a very hurtful way and showed dishonesty to me and him, so I will tell you about that later. 

So this was the time when I was in class 12. I was preparing for my exams. After the exams were over, we made a plan that we would all go for a trip, but then it happens that my best friend who was with me since class 3 or 4, I talked to him and we all made a plan that we would go for a trip. But then everyone said that they did not want to take me along because I did not get along well with them, so my best friend said okay, so he went, but he lied to me that he was unwell and some plan of the rest of the people got cancelled. I came to know later that everyone left and everyone insisted that I should not go, but my friend did not say anything. I did not feel bad that everyone betrayed me. I felt more bad about the fact that the person whom I considered my best friend betrayed me and he betrayed me. I am not sad about that either. He did it by lying to me, I am very sad about that.


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In my life, I took a decision that I will not trust a person until I know him well and understand him well. Even today, I cannot trust everyone that much. So, yes, I have many friends. I do talk to everyone. But I do not trust anyone as much as I used to trust earlier. This was a kind of lesson for me that trusting everyone is not a good thing because if we start trusting everyone, then we will have problems. Everyone will definitely cheat us one day or the other. No matter how. But I also learned that one should not rely completely on others in life. Then you will feel very bad.

In my life, I took a decision that I will not trust a person until I know him well and understand him well. Even today, I cannot trust everyone that much. So, yes, I have many friends. I do talk to everyone. But I do not trust anyone as much as I used to trust earlier. This was a kind of lesson for me that trusting everyone is not a good thing because if we start trusting everyone, then we will have problems. Everyone will definitely cheat us one day or the other. No matter how. But I also learned that one should never depend on anyone in life. Then you will feel very bad.


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In conclusion, I would like to say that if you want to maintain your friendship, your relationship, then these two things are very important. One is trust and the other is mutual respect. Trust is something fragile. Once a person’s trust is broken, it becomes very difficult to trust again and mutual respect is such that you should give respect from both sides. Neither do anything to you that spoils their respect nor do they do anything that spoils your respect. These are the values that help us move forward in life Our parents who have been married for so many years. There is trust and mutual respect between them too which is keeping them together, so learn from them, you will understand from them. How they live with each other and how people trust each other.

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