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photography·@razvanelulmarin·
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I noticed a trend on helping. People want to help... ...but they want to help you in the way they think you need help. Like someone wants to help you pick your clothes but you actually need help learning how to ride the bike. It's really this weird. It's a form of control of wanting to help people by forcing them do things your way. You can dictate what and how someone does something and still hold the moral high ground of being a "helper" or a good person. I'm not even sure most people do this consciously but pay attention. Next time someone needs some help listen to the kind of help they actually need and try to either say no or help that way. It's really the only real help you can give that is effective. And yes, we should try to help more. <center></center>
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