Nice work Phil, as always ....  I usually watch you on YouTube, but in the future, I hope that Steemit will be all we need.

As for nice women only wanting bad guys, I disagree. Good guys are good providers and good fathers. This is a misconception of young men. ;)  Women also love men who can make them laugh, and you have that in spades.  

You will also find that humor often trumps EVERYTHING else, and keeps a relationship healthy, long term.