The signals are clear and simple: if you invested too much in your partner you will be mad at that person, and if you took too much from him or her, the sign is irritation.

Both of these feelings will grow and aggravate, even if you won’t notice from the start. In a relationship, often we offer something hoping that we will receive the same back. If we don’t receive it, we give our relationship another change and so on. At some point, the respect you have for your partner disappears.
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Love becomes destructive, affection starts to fade away and those beautiful moments that you two once had are happening rarely or not at all.

And that’s when you feel incredibly unhappy, that’s when pain appears. You swear to yourself that you’ll never let yourself make the same mistake again, but in a few moments you run back to your partner. It’s sad that most people live with the illusion that there will be a feedback.

Most of the times, there won’t be one and all of the energy you consumed won’t be appreciated.

To love is one thing. To know how to express your love is another. I have to be honest with you, I don't really know how to express my love, I know that and I want to correct this problem.

A lot of relationships will last longer if both partners would know how to express their feelings. Because this thing doesn’t happen, many couples suffer from lack of harmony.

They start having emotional changes, they become more pessimistic and passive. Motivation disappears. And the worst thing is that the ones involved in a relationship like this shut down from their partner, but also outside of the relationship.

It’s hard to create balance in a relationship. Theoretically, everything is clear, but when it comes to putting it in practice, things tend to go crazy. The best advice is to think clearly and decide if you want to continue the relationship. If you have doubts, you will never be determined enough to make positive changes.