Progress On The Deck
hive-189641·@riverflows·
0.000 HBDProgress On The Deck
Whilst I spent the morning surfing and crying, Jamie got on with man grief by doing the back deck. It's taking longer than expected - a LOT of screwing is involved!  It's amazing how much money can be saved by doing it yourself, but the sacrifice is time - a lot of it. It would have been done last week but for Dads departure and everything that needed doing for that. The sweetest thing though is conversation about the deck and garden was the last conversation Jamie had with Dad, though the bitterness is he will never see it. I was struggling with that a lot yesterday - all the things I share with Dad or want to share with him now can't be. People say I can still tell him, or that he is looking down on me, but I am finding that to be bollocks right now and not a support at all.  It will look great though. As it extends from the back of the house there's a real sense you are looking over the garden, if that makes sense. And it's covered up the old slab from a shitty outdoor area that was there when we bought it.  We will need to oil it as well. I'd still like a pergola but that's waaaay down the line. Well, I better go help him I suppose. I'm knackered from surfing though! My hips seem to be handling it okay, and I'm finding the longboard easier on my hips than surfing the SUP. The other longboard girls were lovely on the water this morning too, talking to me about grief in ocean metaphors - it comes in waves, it can hold you under and so on. Jamie is on his own as he builds the deck so if I was a good wife I'd go out and give the man a hand. <center> # `With Love,`    **Join [The Hive Garden](https://peakd.com/c/hive-140635/created) Community! The [HIVE GARDEN COMMUNITY](https://peakd.com/c/hive-140635/created) supports gardening, homesteading, cannabis growers, permaculture and other garden related content. Delegations to the curation account, @gardenhive, are welcome! Find our community [here](https://peakd.com/c/hive-140635/created)!**</sup> **Are you on HIVE yet? Earn for writing! Referral link for FREE account [here!](https://hiveonboard.com?ref=riverflowsJ)**</center> <a href="https://peakd.com/@naturalmedicine"> </center>
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