Love has now become a relative subject. Nowadays we fall in love with someone easily and some relationship does not last long. After breakup, we become so helpless and depression always surrounds us. But most of us don't know that somehow breakup also help us. It makes us more confident in the way.

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The Buddhists believe that the one who has left alone encourages to move forward. So after the separation of the relationship, try to gain self-confidence.If you always try to stay alone than loneliness will attack you. So talk to someone at this time, whom you can freely say everything about your life. Maybe he has some solution for you.

Julia Cameron, an American writer says,
> "We come out with problems from the house, come back with a solution." 

 Although it is used as a metaphor, but walking helps greatly to relieve stress.There are many tutorials and information about 'meditation' and 'mindfulness' on the internet. You can choose yoga for the sake of concentration. 

Different types of anxiety come after the breakup. Anxiety and emotional stress create the tendency of being absent. Do the things you like to do for removing stress. Those who love reading books can easily spend their time. So, if you do not have this quality, then start reading books from today.This process is also useful for those who do not have the habit of writing. You can also write about your feelings on your personal diary. 

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