# Take a smart talk, with touches of humor, and you will succeed.

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As you prepare for a date, you want to be perfect. In your head you do not stop to think about how lights and you think what to say and what not to say and do. You think. Is my shirt well ironed? Do I have something in my teeth? This list goes on and on. But it happens that for the woman who will be next to you, your appearance would not necessarily making it more attractive to you.

The application of dating Plenty of Fish shared the results of Conversation Nation, the most abundant study on this topic.

More than two thousand singles, from 18 to 70 years, of the respondents, nine out of ten people think that the first date with success is based on a good talk.

What is the main reason that a good chat will make you more interesting? It is easier to feel attracted to another person with a good talk, instead of just sitting face to face, engaged in an uncomfortable silence doing nothing, or in a talk of politics or religion. In addition, is your ideal chance to show 3 special notes that women ask when they try to choose a man and are: intelligence, a manly voice and a great sense of humor.

It is perfectly understandable, it is much less likely that a woman you find attractive if the talk with her was a horror (unless it is too beautiful, of course). Eighty-five percent of those who participated in the study said that not having much in common with the person with whom they had the first date, or if it is loud-mouthed or unpleasant (rude) or does not have at least values similar to your own, is never going to work.

To be able to plan and carry a pleasant date, it is very difficult to go wrong if the invite for a drink in a bar or a restaurant that is close to where she lives. And if everything flows, do not overdo the whole appointment looking at your mobile (cell phone),or complaining about your ex-girlfriend, or coming out every once in a while to smoke.The study shows that these acts - in particular, ignore your date to send messages with your cell phone- are considered rude and lack of attention.

If the first meeting was well,you should call her so she knows that you spent a well time. About eighty percent of the unmarried and single mothers interviewed said that a phone call is a conversation and it would be another chance to impress with your communication skills.

On the other hand, if you prefer not to go out with her, being honest is the best. Give false expectations to someone is not good for you or her.

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