Hello! Friends,
Some days back I started series what a mind releases and ended with the uniqueness in our memories, experiences and group we belong which is prone to reshape. You can read more [here.](https://whaleshares.io/@samest/1-and-the-mind-speaks) 

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### Today I will continue with the superpower act.

3. Placing Blames Altogether Stop It.

You did something and you start complaining, reason this: why do you have to do it if the thing is in your control or you someone else is in control who are you going to blame for that act? Stop blaming! Taking ownership of one's life is very important, as a matter of fact, circumstance or someone will control your mind if you don't control it or owns it. When you own your reactions to the happenings, it will open your eyes to a source of ability nobody can corrupt.

Have you found yourself in a situation whereby you are treated unfairly how do you feel and what was your reaction? Many at times when we find ourselves in this situation we start feeling sorry for ourselves.
Okay, why do you blame others for a deed whats your gain in doing such? Sometimes blame needs to be placed elsewhere other than ourselves but again for what purpose is the establishment of the blame? **Blame Is Fruitless**
When you convince the fellow that he's wrong with your blame pronouncements what are you trying to gain and at what cost? You trying to bend the whole universe towards your will just to make every situation around better, what is the gain?
Take ownership don't shift blame or place blame on someone else.

4. Avoid And Stop Waiting To Talk

Do you have a habit of telling always? You need to learn how to listen to understand. Many of us give ears to the discussion in order to respond, I do this a lot of times and it's one of the challenge and habit that needed to go down especially when I'm angry.
See my friend, my understanding this day on this act shows that little restrained in actions or thought to propel observation and result in a great submission

The moment you become an observant you get less contribution is your dealings but better results. When the discussion is ongoing listening and demand for permission to contribute they will listen to you and this usually build a relationship. In listening, information is shared like needs, dislikes, desires, hopes, likes and so many other elements. It is totally wrong to jump into a debate it will definitely ruin your relationship.

5. Never Allow Ambition To Push You To Every Direction

Goals are good! Have a great ambition is good! Working towards achieving all are a fantastic idea but taking or following every direction in order to get there is not always the right thing to do.
You need to define your direction/pathway to your destination. Focusing on result miss lead many of us in decision making, the moment our output is not encouraging we change direction. Does every direction lead to your destination? You need to find first your identity and this frame your pathway to your destination.
Every time you sighted that you do want you don't really want to do and it gives result check it well it's one of the act that may propel you to search for understanding and wisdom to go further in your planning. What am I say?

When you feel bad about an action, it shows that you know where you are doing ad you sense this is wrong. This brings you back to the limelight of your journey. Not every direction lead to your destination.

Now, my conclusion will end with a rhetorical question. **What control you? Your desire for output or the need to do the input? What you contribute to your life daily go along way to affect your destination.

**Change Your Mind**!