Since birth, people are dependent on others. We learn to learn everyday life from childhood and to learn various things, we rely on family, society and educational institutions. Parents care for us during our childhood. They teach us how to decide, how to deal with the challenges. Teachers at school help us learn our different things. Even our future created a breakthrough role!

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But when we go out of the field of formal education, we try to stand on our feet, trying to be self-sufficient beyond all obstacles, what happens?

We have lived through formal education so far. At the moment, we have resolved the problem of the parents' cooperation. But when we enter the career after the end of education, we have no experience and expertise about this new life. That's why our consultant is needed to be successful in our career.

# Be the first time in your life

It's really hard to start a new career! But what is the beginning of the old career? Whenever you start your career, there will be an issue for the first time! But most importantly, do not think yourself alone. Try to be like yourself for the first time in life. Try to make yourself self-reliant without any direct cooperation. Think you are not alone.

According to a recent study, nearly a third of new employees left the job within the first six months! Even teachers, about 17 to 46 percent of the teachers from whom we learn everything leave the teaching job within the first five years!

The disadvantage of work and the lack of confidence that people leave their jobs are the main reasons why proper training and proper response are not available. Most people do not get any advice or cooperation for the first time in the career selection. There is no constructive direction even from someone. After starting work, no one responds positively. But after all, the responses found in the negative are all! Our mistakes are repeatedly made clear, and this is why most people leave the first selected career soon.

# Mentor or mentor

A mentor or consultant is required to overcome this flaw in the career. Consultants are always experienced. They have detailed knowledge about the problems the young people face at the beginning of the career. A skilled and qualified counselor is able to prevent such collisions at the beginning of your career.

If you try yourself and have confidence, maybe you can go a long way. But do you know the road to that road? A mentor is better aware of the way your career will be smooth. All the successful people of the world are somehow reliant on the counselor, no one can succeed alone without their own efforts. As a child we did not learn to walk without the help of parents, so at the beginning of the career, without success the help of mentor does not come. So, at the beginning of a mentor career you want.

# How to find the mentor?

You may find it hard to find a skilled and qualified mentor. But you probably do not know your exact mentor or adviser wanders around you. You need to discover your mentor.

There is a close relationship with time and self-power with proper advice. For this reason, an attorney's mentor will give you time only when he thinks you are worthy, you will find the feasibility.

In the case of consultation with someone from family or relatives, he must have heard such a thing: "I can advise you if you really accept my advice." This means that his views and experiences are valued and he has the advice It's really useful. So professional or amateur any mentor likes to consult his advisor and succeed.

Each of us is new at a time of career and then needs consultant help. At the moment when the consultant's advice really works and we succeed, the counselor also feels himself successful. The consultant is interested in encouraging you more and making new suggestions. But if you only take advice for knowing and do not implement it then the counselor will also turn away from you.

Famous and successful people like Richard Branson and Elon Mask could not reach today's place if they did not get help from anyone else. Such big investors were once new in their career and when they did not know much, they did not understand much. Worked and counseled by qualified consultants, have cooperated.

So find a suitable consultant today. However, a professional can not be your mentor in this case. Your brothers, friends, loved ones or any relatives - Anyone can be your mentor. Again you can become a friend or friend of your work. This exchange of advice to each other helps in creating confidence in your work and raising self-confidence, which brings success in person and career.

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