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I went through a difficult week and it left me frustrated. The reason is even simple and perhaps routine in our lives: I had a heavy disagreement with someone I really like and with that, I was very sad and with that bitter feeling that the discussion had gone too far.

Defending our point of view is not wrong, but there was a good time when it didn't go that far, to the point of almost losing a friendship for simply exposing what I think about a subject. And for me, this person's friendship is something very important and valuable.

Despite thinking I was right, on the subject discussed, we spent 5 days (yes, I counted the days) without talking to each other. I was waiting for a contact from the person that did not happen. So, I went through a process of self-criticism and realized that, in fact, we both made mistakes.

It wasn't an easy decision, I know we waited for the person to come and apologize to us, but I felt like they weren't going to do that. I may be judged that I acted wrongly by calling the person to talk and explain again the points that we exalted, but as I said, it is an important friendship for me.

Finally, we created topics about what went wrong and how we could improve on them, I made it very clear that the change should come from both of us and not just from one or the other. A good conversation, a lot of understanding and finally mutual forgiveness. Everything resolved and the friendship continues!

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Passei por uma semana complicada e que me deixou frustrado. O motivo é até simples e talvez rotineiro nas nossas vidas: tive um desentendimento pesado com uma pessoa que gosto muito e com isso, fiquei bem triste e com aquela sensação amagar que a discussão foi longe demais.

Defender o nosso ponto de vista não é errado, mas tinha um bom tempo que não chegava a tanto, a ponto de quase perder uma amizade por simplesmente expor o que penso sobre um assunto. E para mim, a amizade desta pessoa é algo muito importante e valioso.

Apesar de achar que estava certo, sobre o assunto debatido, ficamos 5 dias (sim, contei os dias) sem conversar um com o outro. Estava esperando um contato da pessoa que não aconteceu. Então, passei por um processo de autocrítica e percebi que, na verdade, nós dois erramos.

Não foi uma decisão fácil, sei que esperamos a pessoa vim se desculpar conosco, mas senti que ela não iria fazer isso. Posso ser julgado que agi errado ao chamar a pessoa para conversar e explicar novamente os pontos que nos exaltamos, mas como disse, é uma amizade importante para mim.

Por fim, criamos tópicos sobre o que erramos e como poderíamos melhorar sobre eles, deixei bem explicito que a mudança deveria vir de nós dois e não apenas de um ou outro. Uma boa conversa, muita compreensão e finalmente o perdão mútuo. Tudo resolvido e a amizade continua!




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