YOU'RE UNIQUE IN YOUR OWN WAY, DON'T GIVE ROOM TO INFERIORITY COMPLEX

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YOU'RE UNIQUE IN YOUR OWN WAY, DON'T GIVE ROOM TO INFERIORITY COMPLEX
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Inferiority complex makes one feel that he/she is of less worth or importance than other people, it's a feeling that you're not as intelligent, good, attractive etc like others. 
I'll say it's a very bad feeling and has deprive many of some good things they would have achieved in life. 
While some on the other hand has been able to fight it and overcome, which is the best thing to do. 

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While growing up, I battled with two bad feelings about myself, which are my timid nature and my complexion. 
From onset, have been a very quiet person and someone that hardly relate with people, even though I don't like my situation but I could hardly do something about it. Nevertheless I love people that are very social, people that can talk fluently in public without being shy but unfortunately for me that was my problem. 

I was curious about how I could get my self out of the big mess, so I started going out with my friends to play football simce most of my them love the sport, it did not solve my problem overnight but at least I was  getting better gradually with time. 
I would also go out with them to play winning eleven, then there was no PES, so what we play was play station one. That's many years back now, I was still in primary school. 
So gradually I was coming out of my shell of shyness and now I can say I'm out finally cus I'm a very different person now compared to what I use to be. 

Another thing was that I'm dark in complexion, which I don't like back then, I'm always like why can't I be a little bit fair in complexion at least, even without someone abusing me about my colour, I use to think low of myself already like I'm not handsome with my colour, there was a time I even tried a bleaching cream, it didn't turn out well so I quickly stop, little did I know that black is beauty and we're all unique in our different ways. 

For the fact that I was shy and not outspoken, my friends use to ride me whenever they abuse me, I won't be able to defend myself with words, this thing do hurt me seriously but I can't do anything. 

But as time goes on I start to realize that I don't even have to be shy, like the popular slang; "why shall I shy, even if I shall shy, shall I shy for you." meaning there's no reason to be shy of anyone whatsoever, and of course we're all humans, there's no angel among us here on Earth, i.e no one is perfect and we all have our differences. 

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Some people are short, some are tall, some are dark, some are fair, some are intelligent while some are not and the list goes on and on. Some people because of their physical look, maybe they don't like their stature, this made then look down on themselves even before people start judging them.

For some people it's education, because some are not brilliant, they think they're the worst of all in the world and start thinking they can't be productive, which is very wrong. No matter your look, your intelligent quotient, your family background etc, you're very unique, and you can always improve on yourself if you want to. 

We've seen someone that came from a very poor background but now very rich, also someone that was sometimes a dullard but now very brilliant, so you can always work on yourself to being a better person, don't let challenges weigh you down. 

Inferiority complex is a bad feeling that needs to be fought and won. 
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