### So just when I thought maybe they have figured out that we're not doing drugs, the urinalysis people came by again for Jared. A woman and a man this time. The man was there to watch and make sure Jared wasn't cheating. Since it had been so long since the last time they came, I thought that maybe the social worker had indeed only ordered them for one month, but, alas, we're in for another month of unexpected visits. Up to 5 more this month. This is very frustrating. The man told Jared that he has been one of the most cooperative people he's come across. Wow, that makes me feel just all warm and fuzzy inside. (Where's the eye roll emoji btw.)

### Tomorrow I have to go down to the police department to meet with the social worker and detective for "variety in case management." She said it shouldn't take more than an hour...I've been wracking my brain, trying to figure out what this is all about. What do you think "variety of case management" means?

### My mother in law says they want to get me alone to talk to me and make sure I'm not being abused or kept against my will.

### My husband thinks it's going to be a divide and conquer attempt. They will question me and try to get me to turn on Jared, so they have more to work with. 

### I'm wondering if maybe they saw my Steemit posts, and will question me about some of the things I wrote about, such as trying to kick Jared out. 

### Or maybe all of the above??

## I found this meme about the difference between how criminals are treated, and how parents are treated when CPS becomes involved. Isn't it the truth though?
![](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmbq1gnJB1n1tWP6g59zLMZbYwZEAoLjEmGjareM28rXcV/image.png)
[source](https://i.pinimg.com/originals/39/bd/2c/39bd2c3cee4e5075a1e685265d868aad.jpg)

## I'd like to add:
### Criminals: innocent until proven guilty
### Parents: guilty until proven innocent
### Criminals: are investigated prior to arrest
### Parents: Children often taken before an investigation takes place

## Honestly, I can't stop wondering about tomorrow. I'm really nervous. What more could they possibly ask me about? We were already interviewed! 

# Thanks for reading, snowpea ❤
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