The success in life lies in the way, we face a challenges. There are two kind of people we see around us. One who prefer to run away looking up the challenge, while the other category of the person are those who stand upfront facing eye to an eye with the challenge for a solution to conquer the difficulties. I always see the person who take all the risk and ready to face the challenges, always grow and prosper in life. It not only give success but also give them experince to deal with differrnt situation. Such people have a strong mindset and are capable of achieving any heights in life. As I read somewhere, 

> *This world is not for cowards. Do not try to fly. Look not for success or failure. Join yourself to the perfectly unselfish will and work on*. - Swami Vivekananda


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A courageous person always up for the challenge, they are having strong mindset. Rather than leaving any things midway, they prefer to get over it through finding out certain way to deal with the situation. For them, **impossible** does not exist and they alwsyd belive in **i-m-possible**. Embracing difficulties in life, is all about viewing challenges as stepping stones that can lead to new heights, rather than obstacles that hold us back. Nonone is perfect, but there are many way to getbyoyrself adapt to any situation. We should have this kind of approach in life, to prosper. I have many instances from my real life where Infound myself in peculiar situation hut did all my effort get over it.

> **Dealing the Difficult times**


I remember, *the day, when I was quite shy talking with unknown. Especially when it comes to girls. The situation was so worse, the many started to make fun of me. My condition in front the girls are alwsys nervy. I use to shiver, never able to make eye contact and above all, always try to avoid them. My friends rather than helpingbwere more into making fun. However, one of my neighbour came to my rescue. He gave me few option and that certainly works. He enrolled me to "personality development" classes, as the trainer mostly used to be female, I got s good hand. He also introduced me to internet *(yahoo)* chat rooms and ask me to chat with girls. No matter on what topic but he alwsys forces me to keep chatting,  *h r u, a s l, etc* are few of the learning from public chatroom server. This really works, in few days, and gradually I becomes more confident. It was result of this that I cracked good interview in many MNC, where the HR are mostly consist of Females staff*.  

This is one of the example that was the building blocks in my career. I changed my mindset completelly, and thus helped me in long run. In another instances to share from #steem network. *I was written off by a community for not having a level of English as many have. They find me awkward, as my writing were not in standard with US or UK accent or language. This was a shock response and moment for me. It was in the initial days and I was in shock. And now, I have completed more than 6 years. Rather than giving up, ad leaving the platform, I preferred to cope up with the situation. I went ahead to learn my mistakes in framing sentences. I read many vocabs and ultimately, it help me to survive so far.*


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In all the scenarios, I was more looking for proper solution to improve myself rather than giving up easily in life. It requires me some much needed external support. This is important to reach out for support as at difficult times, our mind get clogs to deal with the situation. And a fresh mind always comes up with some fresh thoughts. Dealing with the situation requires us to have:

- *a mindset for accepting the difficulty*.
- *do not rush away, and try to move step by step*.
- *reach out to your closed trusted one for options*.
- *make things lighter and avoid over thinking.*

Everything is possible in life, it just requires a positive intent and mindset to move ahead in life. Once we are ready to embrace the difficult time, it ensures a good happy time in longer time.


## Peace!!

### Namaste @steemflow 

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