>"Failure is simply the chance to try again, this time with more intelligence." - Henry Ford

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I hear some people saying that in this life you have to be lucky, have a chance to do something in life, and that some of us do not have this chance ...The first thing I'm thinking about is that those people have never really risked their lives, that all chances have passed by them, and that all chances have been picked up by others.Why do I believe that? Because if you really risk in this life, it's a matter of time until you experience a failure!If the people I was saying were really at risk, they would understand that success only goes with failure. Those people would have understood that in order to catch a bigger fish, you must first catch the little ones!

Yes, with the failure comes a state of demoralization, a decrease in confidence in you, but failure brings with it knowledge, it makes you stronger, wiser and more prepared in the future for similar situations.It does not matter how many times you are hit and whenever you are in this life, it's important how you get up, how and how fast you can "stand up again."Each failure in part is another step that you climb on the ladder of your life and brings bitterness with it, but it can also bring a fear of trying again.

To overcome this fear, do not overwhelm yourself, below you have some methods that can motivate you to go on, try again and again until what you want will happen:

## 1.Rediscover the reason for your goal

Many times, when we pursue a goal or a dream of ours, we risk forgetting why we want to get there, not to see the real reason why we have imposed our goal. This often happens when others around us follow the same thing, but for a different reason. The worst thing you can do is confuse your motivation with his.

When you experience a failure, this may amplify, or take control. It's very easy not to see what's the reason you do something when you encounter major obstacles. Because of this, it is very important that you think once again very well what your motivation is, that your things are as clear as possible so that you can find the strength to go further.

## 2.Identifies the negative forces in your life

When we encounter obstacles, or when we have a regression to our evolution, there is almost always a person in our lives, or even a group of friends whose opinions usually make us feel "smaller", people who do not encourages in situations like this, or even give the impression that they enjoy when we experience a failure. This kind of people are often those who live a lifestyle with which we disagree, or struggle with.

It is very important to identify the negative forces in your life, that they are friends, knowledge or an inappropriate entourage, and manage to avoid them in any form during this harder period. Instead, try to surround yourself with people who encourage you, who believe in you and your forces. The latter will give you the power to move forward with any risk or price.

## 3.Remove the notion "Can not"

One of the most important "tools" that can help you go before experiencing a failure is to remove the notion "Can not" from the vocabulary. You have to be aware of the moments in which you are negativist and react very quickly, to get them out of your mind.

And now you're going to ask, "What do you mean, I need to be careful what I'm thinking?"? YES, that's exactly what you have to do, make sure that the negative thoughts in your mind disappear and make room for the positive ones. Only this way will you manage to go before you experience a failure, find new solutions to achieve what you initially proposed.

## 4.Face your fears

No, it's not about your fears of height or spiders, or other phobias that you have. These are the fears that you now have of a new failure that you might have again if you take it over and over again. Yes, that is, you may fail again! But, as I said at the beginning of the article, you must understand that failure is part of success, that without failure or error you can not become better, wiser and more prepared in the future.

It is absolutely normal to have fears now because they have gone through a failure, but it is very important not to let these fears take control of your life and try again!

## 5.Don't give up

Even when the obstacles seem too big, when you can not see the end of your journey, it is very important to trust your initial instincts and to go ahead. What has been harder to do, the only thing you have to do is to help "inertia" to keep moving.

Having a failure is hard, it will always leave a scar in your life. But you have to understand that you will rise again, and this failure will be just another story of yours.

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