We often take certain advises lightly. Especially the most prescribed ones like; don't drink, don't smoke, don't womanize, avoid bad company, and the likes. 

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Meanwhile, I realized that on the surface, when men are asked to avoid womanizing,it looks more like a mere moral womanizing. But actually, in womanizing, it's not the sex that ruins you. It's the general performance of the chase that take too much from. I know, I know, this is sounding personal. 

See, If you're frugal and a little sensible, you'll understand how very expensive it is, especially now that the fuel price is on the rise.

Let's do a little math
If you live in the state I do and you're importing a babe from a neighbouring state, that's at least 15k transport(to and fro) and as a nice guy, you'll have to top it up with something, maybe 5k so she'll have small gain.

If she comes too, she has to be comfortable. If there's no light in your area, that's a big problem. You'll have to keep the generator on all day for the number of days she stays. Let's say, 15k. But we both know that with the removal of subsidy, it'll be more. I'm just being nice.

You'll also have to take her out too nau, groove and stuff. A date, to the club, cinema, wherever. Give or take, 20k will call out.

Then food. In the days she'll be there, you can't be doing your regular coke and meatpie for breakfast, fasting for lunch and swallow for dinner. That cannot work. She has to feed well. Like that, like that, you'll spend nothing less than 20k for stocking up the kitchen. 
Let's not even forget the small small cravings and stuff.

As you can see, it's getting to 100k and you've not given her 'thanks for coming.'
LMAO!

If you're someone who engaged constantly in this chase, it means you have to always sacrifice time, money, focus, psychological pressure, you mention them.

There are still other factors to consider like; being a fine guy, being broke, being fine without money and alladat.

In essence, all I'm saying is that womanizing is debilitating be you broke or not. And I'm not even preaching that you should fall in love and stick to one person.

I'm only saying that you should go slow...two at a time. If you're going through a lot, then you can do three, maybe four but that's the limit...Tsk!

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